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What should I do , I do not want to hurt his feelings ?

There is the boy who likes me very badly! He tries to go with me everyday! I do not want him because he is ugly to me! But I know it is not all about the looks! But he is sweet but I can not picture myself going with him! Help Me!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    im against the fact that u judge a person by his looks if u think he is a nice guy and will keep u happy then i think u should give him a fair chance

  • 1 decade ago

    Looks matter more than a person? No they DONT. U think he is ugly? Well, ur a black. Does that mean ur ugly too? NO.

    Why do u care abt what ppl think? Agree or dont, u think the guy is "ugly" bcoz u "wanna go around with some good guy so that u can show-off to ur frnds that u have a hunk in ur life". But at the end of the day, whose life is it? YOURS.

    U dont want a sweet guy? Then who exactly do u want? A Flirt???

    Ur lucky u've found a guy whose sweet. There's extreme shortage of those kinda guys these days. Usually, guys are just looking for s3x. This guy doesnt seem to need it to be with u.

    U've got a jewel. Dont make a mistake of dumping him for his looks. U shall repent later on...

    Also, Dont think that he's ugly. If u think he's ugly, he's ugly. If u dont think so, he isnt. Its all in the mind.

    "Public opinion doesnt matter in your personal life" - Cristiano R

  • 1 decade ago

    If no other way, explain you have a friend, your going out, and be straight with him.

    Tell him he's a nice guy but as mates only. I am interested in someone else hopefully he will get the picture.

  • smiley
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    ten to one this guy will eventually move on to the next girl and then you are gonna miss the attention from him,and you'll be jealous. so the question is are you sure your not a little bit interested in him?

    you might kick your butt down the road .

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  • 1 decade ago

    be honest with him and tell him you dont feel the way he does as far as a relationship goes other than friendship...dont string him along and hurt him..tell him the truth, how you truely feel...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be honest with him and tell him you don't look at him as a b/f. Sorry. He will get over it .

  • 1 decade ago

    tell this guy tht u dont feel for him the way he be feelin 4 u

  • 1 decade ago

    you can let him no that you just want to be friends and that is all, he will accept it if he wants to stay your friend. I f he gets pushy then you say what you feel and he will get over it

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him you are sorry but you think of him as a brother! You can't help who you are or are not attracted too.

  • 1 decade ago

    u just gotta be real with him and let him know you dont want to go with him

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