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I dumped him, but now I can't stop thinking about him!?!?

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months very recently. I broke up with him because I wasn't feeling happy or cherished anymore.

Tonight, I left him a message to call me back saying I wanted to talk to him, but he hasn't called back. He's probably mad right?

Anyway, I don't know why I broke up with him, I obviously like him more than I thought. Or do I just want what I can't have?

Any comments are appreciated. Thanks.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think that you want what you can't have.

    You weren't happy and you weren't feeling cherised, and knowing that you felt that way is a good thing.

    You need to move on and find someone who's going to make you happy and make you feel everything that you deserve to feel.

    You broke up with him for a good reason, now it's time to keep reminding yourself of that. You should remind yourself that you definitely deserve more than that. You deserve better

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, he's either mad, in which case he has the right to be, or seeing another girl, already. It's possible you acted out of spontaneity, and quick presumption. Yes, you obviously do.

    Keep tyring to contact him, but make your messages sound more urgent. Also watch for him, whenever you're at the mall, or some where. If you see him, call his name. If he only looks then walks away, instead of approaching you, go after him- unless your desire to talk to him, isn't terribly important to you.

  • DO NOT DO NOT GO BACK TO HIM. You broke up because you felt something wasn't right. Trust your feelings. I know it's hard. I've been through BAD break-ups.....just hang in there and wait for the new and improved guy to come along. Good Luck! :-)

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