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how can you get over a person after breaking up?
12 Answers
- Michelle LynnLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
The only thing that will get you over a heart break is time, live your life and move on, don't sit and dwell on what could have been.
Be with friends, do activities, look to your family for support. Stay busy! Easier said then done, but it's true.
Time will heal it, just takes time sweetie!
Good luck!
- 1 decade ago
Hook up with old (and new) friends of the same sex as you are. Avoid drinking if you do that for recreation. Start a hobby, or go back to your old hobbies. Visit people at their houses and invite people over. Avoid being alone. Concentrate on your work/studies, make plans for weekends and stay away from places you used to go to with your now ex-partner. Takes time, but you'll feel better every day, I promise.
- 1 decade ago
There is no perfect answer for this one. You can't just eliminate feelings, they take time to get over...sometimes, a lot of time. The best thing that you can do is to keep busy. Make sure that your down time is always occupied with something. Spend time with friends, and tell them that you don't want to talk about whoever you broke up with. That will come down the road...for now, you need to occupy your thoughts with something else.
- Shelley LLv 61 decade ago
It just takes time. Cry and be sad at first then move on and distract yourself with something you enjoy - a hobby, a sport, spend time with your friends, whatever makes you happy. Break-ups suck, but you'll get through it. Good luck.
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- sharon jLv 41 decade ago
Go to GOD and let him heal your heart.That's what working for me right now. I've broke up with a person I was in a eight year relationship, he cheated on me.You know he hasn't even come to say I'm sorry. It been 3months now no word from him. You know it doesn't bother me,because I have Jesus in my life. Pray things will get better.
- 1 decade ago
hmmm... i'll try my best to keep myself busy for the next few days... hang out with my pals for a drink, or go shopping, or go catch a movies, or spending some quality times with my parents... or maybe also... find a new group of friends... or a new hobby...
- Anonymous1 decade ago
time heals all wounds--but, the best thing you can do is take care of yourself--don't drown yourself in sorrow, get out with your friends for dinner/dancing/shopping--take up a hobby or sport. keep active and remember, you will get over him!
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
When you find out, will ya tell me? Please....
It's so very hard....allow time to grieve the relationship....then go meet a new person....
good luck...
- Anonymous1 decade ago
don't know any details but it is gonna be hard expecially if u were going out for awhile but try getting out go to partys meet new people
- juslookinLv 51 decade ago
only time....and maybe some very close friends to talk too can help you with that.