I'm a Virgo why do I seem to be attracted to Aries?

As a virgo your element is earth, you would be most compatible with other earth signs, like capricorns and taurus; or signs in the water element, cancer, scorpio and piscis. The reason you are attractedto aries (fire element) it's because the earth signs tend to be attracted to fire signs and viceversa. Here look,

Fire signs often have a terribly intense secret longing for the very security, stability, and 'ordinariness' which in public they may be heard to condemn as drab and suffocating. Earth signs, by contrast, have an equally intense, equally secret, equally unspoken longing for the spiritual. This is frequently in the guise of superstition, which is even more embarrassing, since they are so quick to demand the facts, and so apparently anything but gullible. But there is no more spiritually gullible element than earth, although you may have to get your earth sign friend drunk to get him to admit that he knocks on wood all the time, won't pass under ladders, and has a horror of spilling the salt. Earth signs are often fascinated by ghosts, psychism and other para-psychological phenomena which are an everyday part of life of fire. But the earth person will often not consider these things as part of the universe, a natural part which is perhaps not yet understood. He 'believes' in the 'supernatural' in a covert way without recognizing the implications of such a world. So - predictably - he will look for these qualities in a partner. Earth is attracted to fire, just as fire is attracted to earth.

Its all a load of nonesense! But, I still look at that sort of thing anyway ;)

I'm a virgo with an aries boyfriend and I've read up on a lot of that stuff, and I know I shouldn't believe it, but a lot of it is eerily true :)

Apparently, although on the face of it, aries are terribly incompatible, for some reason they work tremendously well!

Aries are completely opposite to virgo in many areas - they rush into things, we like to think things over, they're extrovert, we're introvert, they love spontineity, we loathe it etc etc.

They say that the two may have a very rocky relationship at first because of these differences, but if you can learn to accept each other's differences, you become a terribly close couple. An aries will encourage a virgo to open up a bit more, have a little more fun, worry a little less. The virgo will keep an aries' feet on the ground and provide stability. Incidentally, virgos and aries make excellent business partners for this reason.

Its all about the virgo allowing the aries to be leader and the aries respecting the virgo's point of view.

If you ask me, I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be anything else.

Otherwise, check out this for guaging your compatibility:

http://www.astrology-online.com/arsunvi.htm

My weaknesses tend to be Pisces and Gemini (I'm Virgo, too). Virgos are supposed to have good pairings with Capricorn, Pisces too, although the latter hasn't been my experience. Virgos are often attracted to Gemini, although the feeling generally isn't mutual (my experience as well). Virgo/Virgo pairings work out well, too. Virgo/Libra is a fairly bad pairing. You can find all this somewhere on the net.

everyone is attracted to aries, they're fiesty,good lovers, and brutally honest, also have beautiful personalities. but i dont know who is compatible with you. i believe that whoever you find and like then keep. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and he's a capricorn and i'm an aries they are not compatible at all but we don't care because we love,honor, and cherish each other. listen to your heart, the right person will soon come along.

Taurians are the most compatable partner, Aries tend to be chaotic and misguided and us Virgo's can't resist a challenge in terms of trying to change an Aries to be organised and ordered. I advise giving it up as it never works, find yourself a dutiful, protective and loving Taurian!

I'm a virgo and been married to a scorpio for the last 38 years. If you want a long relationship I expect thats the way to go? Or maybe I need help?

Have you ever studies what your other signs are? Like your moon sign, or rising sign? If you have Aries (or another fire sign) in one of those placements then that could be why you're attracted to Aries. Go to http://www.alabe.com/freechart to find your other signs.

No sign. And you aren't particularly attracted to certain people anywhere beyond a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Seriously, have you ever sat down and actually thought about how astrology worked? Because it seems you haven't. I strongly suggest reading this:

http://www.badastronomy.com/bad/misc/astrology.htm...

It's all in ur head! u made urself believe that ur only attracted to Aries!

you shouldn't think about horoscopes. love is what's important.

so you're birthdate is between March 20-April 18 ?

well, in the chinese zodiac, you're a....well, what year? check here, know what year your aries guy is and see. here's a website:

http://www.c-c-c.org/chineseculture/zodiac/zodiac....

click on any sign to see the year, and compatibilty.

good luck