Fish out of water....?

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I know they say that their are plenty of fish in the sea, but I am just tired of the dating seen.  Don't you get tired of intriducing yourself over and over to people only to find out they are not really who they say they are?? 

Not to vent, but the women i have met lately have all been so superficial and fake that it makes me almost wonder if I'll ever settle down.  I am not a pessimist, but the good ol days of dating are so far gone?  

This is my question;  Does anyone else feel like a fish out of water in this whole dating scene or is it just me?? 

Right now I am feeling like a fish out of water.  I am want to hop back in the pool, but also want to through my hands up and say the heck with it??

greeneyes · Accepted Answer

It can be frustrating.  But hang in there.  One day your Princess will come....and unexpectedly at that.  Love don't come easy.
True love waits....patiently.  Love is blind...so you may not see it coming ..right around the corner.  Yeah dating is a drag for alot of people....it is like a waste of time if you NEVER meet anyone halfway interesting....and true.  I dated someone for a year....and when I really got to know him...he had a bad temper that I never knew about....for a whole year!!!  So keep your eyes, ears, and heart wide open!!Dont be too desperate and lonely....

litetone78 · Answer

Alot of people feel the need to say what they think you want to hear.I most of the time find that the main thing they claim they are not or don't like that that person true self.Don't get mess around when you see the signs run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!It someone for you out there it take sometime.

crazy · Answer

Just be patient and god will send someone in your life for you and you only I've noticed when you are looking you come up short but when you say the heck with it thats when someone comes along be patient and dont go looking for love let love find you.

Big hands Big feet · Answer

I usualy meet the women I end up with when I am not trying,  or expecting to. things just kind of fall into place. forces we dont understand or see are matchmaking for you. when the time is right, she will fall into your life., Or you can take matters into your own hands and try to meet someone.

sandy k · Answer

yes things surely have changed women r more in control of everything not like yrs back when men had the control  and i definitely c where ur coming from and ur exactly right!hang in there and good luck

bald_guy69 · Answer

well..there are a lot of dating sites...if you want to look for specific types of women...might make things easier as far as dating is concerned...and hopefully get rid of those cookie sheet deep personalities. 
  good luck out there

♥ Army Wife ♥ · Answer

Your problem is that you are looking .. STOP LOOKING .When ppl go out "looking" they are searching for what they want and not what they need. Let that special lady come to you and you'll see the big difference between her , the one who found you , and them , the ones you searched for.

Anonymous · Answer

3 words.. Mail Order Bride!

Anonymous · Answer

thast because you are looking for it. havent you ever noticed that you can always find what you are looking for when you stop looking for it, like when you lose your favorite tie or sunglasses, etc. i think relationships tend to work the same way

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Fish out of water....?

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