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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Invited to a familly Xmas dinner...!?

I have met my bf in beginning of July, and became exclusive from the end of August. He's 32, I'm 27.

Because of my job, I have to go to the States in next March. I told him that, though he believes things will work out. He's asking me if I could find a job in UK, or some how, a way to stay.

I can see he's in love with me a lot, and I love him too, even though we've only known eachother for a short term yet.

Now, he invited me to his familly Xmas...and I'm the first person ever to be invited during the holiday.

I'm Japanese, is Xmas invitation from a guy and his familly a huge thing in UK, like New Years for us?

What should I do if I'm very sure that I want to take this job in the States, but don't want to separate with him...?

I'm not sure if Long distance would work for us.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yes, being invited to Christmas dinner means he's serious about you.

    But you should follow your dreams -- take the job and be true to yourself. If you mean that much to him he'll find a way to make it work.

  • 4 years ago

    in case your going to fulfill his kinfolk what's the project if he replaced into someone from down the line out of your residing house he might want to have met your moms and dads in the first week. Your making too a lot of this truly it isn't a huge deal, i'm particular he might want to be extremely comfortable to be invited for your residing house and probably this is going to provide him the push to say those 3 little words that possibly you would possibly want to be declaring to at least one yet another.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    christmas is a big family occasion in the uk, i hope things work out for both of you, good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    try to give ur love

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  • 1 decade ago

    then don't leave

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