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wat shud she do in such situation?

this friend of mine did arrange marriage and its been 4 years, she has 3 year old daughter too, though the situations were never good for her, but now things have detoriated..... her husband says that he married her so that she can take care of her family an does not like her at all, he abuses her and her parents everyday almost round the clock, it becomes reaaly untolerable for her, he has hit her too, but cuz she hit him bak, now the problem is that she can not even leave him(indian readers cud relate to it better), as she is not earning and not that educated that that she cud earn so much to sustain herself and her daughter, and her husband is going worse to worst evryday, as she abuses all day with the worst of abuuses one can think of and then have sex in the night and no she doesnt refuse, cus she thinks that will just worson the scenerio, she wants to improve on her marriage or wants to come out, if she leave him

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and then there r additional social burdens( wat will pple say ) again the indian readers can relate to it better, but plzzzzz help, wat shud she do, she has tried everything to make her marriage work, but in vain, the husband say that he doesnt want it to improve , just want to make it worse for her

and it is veryy difficult to go to courts, it takes years in india to get a simple maintantance and a decade to solve the divorce case, confused?????

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Tell her to pray to Jesus Christ. Just as how she could tell you the situation tell her to tell Jesus Christ the son of God the problem she is having. In the Holy Bible Jesus said "The truth is, any one who believes in me will do the same works I have done and even greater works, because I am going to be with the Father (God).You can ask for anything in my name,and I will do it, because the work of the Son (Jesus Christ) brings glory to the Father. Yes anything you ask in my name I will do it".

    Source(s): The Holy Bible (St. John 14 verses 12 to 14)
  • 1 decade ago

    I doesn't matter how they ended up married. If he hit her once, he'll hit her again. She should leave him and take the child with her. Otherwise, some day he could go too far and kill her. I was always raised that a Man should never hit a Woman, no matter what! He is slime!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Wait until he goes to sleep and slit his damn throat, problem solved

  • 1 decade ago

    she can go to the cops

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  • 1 decade ago

    she should kill him. or get way from him at any cost. i feel so sorry for her.

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