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mia asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

how to forget the first love????? please help.?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You will never forget first love...There is only ONE first love...but, You can look back on it and not feel so much pain...The only cure is time...that is both uncomfortable for you and True....

    Cry..If you are hurting...Talk... to people about your feelings...LIVE...it only feels like your life is over,,,check your pulse you are still alive....Truthfully..If you could have this person back..You would not Really want them...only the hurt part of you wants them, the rejected side of you that longs to be wanted...The true you , the rational and thinking you wants someone who wants to be with you...You Deserve that...and in time..I am sure you will find it...One morning soon you will wake up, and notice the sunshine again and realize...Hey, today it doesn't hurt so bad and...I am going to be okay....Head up and Go forward...Lennon

  • 1 decade ago

    Time can heal the wound...and you will just found new love if you ready to open your heart and you did get over from the past, just think once there is falling in love be open minded that there is also fall out love..,which we dont know when will it happen coz life is full of surprises just be ready all the time. Do make some fun with your friends im sure soon you will forget your past love. They say first love never dies i guess maybe its true coz in fairness we dont forget the love, but we found new love. Goodluck

  • 1 decade ago

    You are not alone, I have been thorough the same. I understand your concern. But hey whatever happen for better or for worse it happened. I understand its human nature to recall the past, but its not going to do any good, is it? Think about what your life was like before you met that person, and try to act like everything you have gone through was just a dream. You just wake up and say good morning to the future that awaits you. Maybe someone better than that person will get into your life, you just dont know. Positively thinking is the key, in which you can view the world with a whole new perspective, and can unlock the powers within you that you just dont know about.

  • 1 decade ago

    By trying on the second love, third love and then so on. By the way I saw my my first love after a few years. She is married, has a kid, looks like hag, balding husband and guess what I did not even know that was my first love until she came by and said hello. I have long moved on and wished her good luck and went home and made love to my 5th love who is now love of my life with regular normal family life!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Why should U? It should be preserved for life whether sweet or sour! Any thing subsequent to that can not be 'first'! If you are still bent upon go in for another or keep your selves away from those pains by totally engaging your self in mind blowing work so that it takes priority over the so called first. Remember the human mind can not continue the same feelings for a long period whether t is pleasant or painful

  • 1 decade ago

    hi pretty woman,

    true love in these days is a 'rare commoditty.Since you have already lost it, just try to remember these lines-

    ''he was not for you in the first place...so he went away.

    OK?

    Life is long journey...You will come across many , true love will automatically come to you aand most amazing thing is. YOU WILL FEEL IT', . forget about that first love..you are more precious than him.Make yourself busy and evolve.

    Source(s): n.a.
  • 1 decade ago

    Just allow another person to enter in ur life and love him or her than perheps u will be able to forget ur first one.

  • 1 decade ago

    forgetting firstlove is difficult. Try to think less of him, do things that kept u busy so that u wont remember her. Find and make frnds. Spend time with frnds, enjoy ur life. Love him who loves u. Take care

  • 1 decade ago

    find other love to forget first

  • 1 decade ago

    First love is the best. Dont forget. marry her

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