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help my cousin plz...?
This is basically a quest for indians(coz dey will understand da guys situation in a better way dan most oders)
I have a cousin who is of marriageable age. But the prob here is dat he has two siblings n both got married to the partners of their choice. His parents accepted this but now he feels that he should marry the girl his parents choose for him coz his bro n sis both chose their partners so it must be his parents wish to find a suitable girl for him. He doesnt have any gal on his mind currently but can wait for one to come.
so what should he do???? go wid da girl he likes or to keep his parents happy go for sumone dey choose for him
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Politely tell them that you would love to marry the grl they choose,,but also you want them to meet n think about the grl you like....ur parents n urs ,,both together make a decision,that will be the best choice for you.
it not fair,,ur siblings got to chose their partener and not you.So make them meet the grl u like and if she is good ,,she will be ur parents choice too.Good luck
an Indian
- 1 decade ago
If your cousin doesn't mind, let him at least meet the girl who his parents like. And let them both at least get to know each other for sometime like for a few days by going out together and talking, or something like that . After this being done, if they both find each other acceptable enough for a strong committment, they can themselves decide on the possiblity of a marriaige. And if they don't, then they can break off at any point of time and go their separate ways just like in a normal relationship.
In this way, even their parents will be happy no matter what the outcome, because they will realize that their children have at least tried their best to fulfull the wish about their parents selection of an eligible marraige partner.
But please tell you cousin, not to reject his parents proposal outrightly without even meeting the girl because they will feel very sad and betrayed and may even get the feeling that maybe their son no longer has any regard for his parents and their feelings
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If your couseen god da proper brains, he keep da both of them happy,
one girl he marry of hees chioce
one girl he marry of his modhers choice.
what da ? correct no?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
He should ask his parents if they want to pick out his partner and if they think it's ok for him to do it then ok.
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- 1 decade ago
IT IS BETTER TO GIVE THE DECISION TO HIS PARENTS B'CZE EVERYONE I KNOW WHO GOT MARRIED WITHOUT PARENTS PERMISSON THEY ARE FACING PROBLEMS SO PARENTS ARE WELL EXPRERIENCED IN DESISION TALING SO LEAVE IT TO THEM FOR BETTER FUTURE BYE
