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dont feel anything when i kiss him?

im going out with this guy for a few days now and i like him but i dont like anywhere near as much as he likes me. when i kiss him its like i dont feel anything for him. i dont wanna break up with him but i duno what to do, im not really that attracted to him either. i dont know what im doing.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    1st im sorry for what is happening, 2nd i believe that kissing some1 makes u sure whether u luv him or not! so its obvious that u dnt luv him or even like him or maybe u feel that ur doing sth wrong.. how about u tell him the truth? its the best way ever. maybe he can help u! Good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I know about a condition where people just don't like to kiss, but I can't think of the name right now. You wouldn't really fit into that category, since you like kissing, but just don't enjoy it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Same thing happened to me, too, with my ex. Nothing in the kiss. I should've dumped him much sooner than I did. So, you should find someone who will actually excite you when you kiss, because that's how it's supposed to be! If you keep postponing the break-up, it'll only be worse for the both of you.

    Source(s): me
  • 1 decade ago

    A few days, thats way too short to know what u r doing. go out with him if u like him but dont let him believe u r attracted to him if u r not.Just be his friend, feelings cd develop along the way

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry you have to break up with him..There's no physical attraction between the two of you ..I've been there before..and i forced myself to likethe guy...so i ended up by hating him..and being disgusted every time i kiss him ..so leave now ..better than later ..

  • 1 decade ago

    Put a little distance between you for a while. Re-examine your feelings. Then when you have a better perspective of such relationship, you may make a decision.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You are not doing any favors to him or yourself by staying in a sparkless relationship. Give both of you a chance to find love elsewhere, while you're still young, that way you're not wasting any more time.

  • beebee
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    let it go...if a guy can't move you with his kiss there is nothing there especially if you are not even attracted to him. duh, thats why the kiss is no good...do the math...his kiss is not good...i'm not attracted... do you really need to ask?! if you need him for anything it's because you are insecure.

  • 1 decade ago

    if there isn't that zing then that's a sure sign that the relationship will be a boring one. move on to better things immediately.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hun, If your not attracted to someone. Don't date them. He will move on and find someone else to adore and you can move on to that hot hunk that you are crushing on.

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