23 y/o Virgin?

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My grilfriend is 23 and still a virgin. We are ready to move to the next stage, but every time we try it hurts her too much to fully break the hymen. Does her age mean that this is going to be a problem? Should we seek medical advice?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lots of lubrication and make sure she's relaxed. Her age doesn't have much to do with it but, if you are finding that it's not working even after using lube, foreplay and making sure she's relaxed, she may want to see a doctor for a pelvic exam. Sometimes women have extrodinarily thick hymens. It's not very common but, when it happens sometimes the doctor has to break the hymen in the office. Don't worry though, hymens are so extrodinarly pointless. It could also be another problem so, if sex is impossible have her speak with a doctor.

dso116 · Answer

i don't think her age has anything to do with it. breaking the hymen hurts..period! make sure she's relaxed and WELL-LUBRICATED!!! when she's tense, her muscles will contract making it more painful. hope this helps.

cooomas · Answer

you should relax. dun go too fast. if both you really love each other, then do it slowly. kiss her and my use alot of lub first so she will be more relax and dun think about pain when she know you really sincerly to her.

boon2loi · Answer

May be you should start by kissing and licking all over her body, especially somewhere down there

Anonymous · Answer

Use lots of lube, and go very slowly...she doesn't need to see a doctor, she'll get used to it.

Anonymous · Answer

maybe she is a little dry.. you could use a little lubrication at both your penis and her area.. than trust slowly so that she won't hurt

chill&#39;n · Answer

foreplay and lots of it. just be gental and finger her lots and it will be ok

retardedpossum · Answer

you need to go to work on her with a big old dildo!   lol

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