what do you do if you like someone you know you cant be with?

Not to downplay the guy necessarily but does he feel similar to you? He is in a band after all and he meets heaps of people all the time, perhaps you are just one of many to him? Think also how deep are these feelings you have? Maybe thinking about all this is premature.

I'd strongly advise you keep your job though, its not always easy to find a job that is so important to you. Remember that if he is into you then maybe it could also be him who considers cutting back on the band.

Something else to consider is that if you care about him and what is best for him then you will obviously not want to affect his career and where it will take him, and maybe you can find peace in the fact that you let him go to pursue his dream.

I hope your path becomes clearer to you in the near future!

Good Luck :)

If you can't be with this person, the only way to let him go is thru distance and time..The longer you are away from him(dont see don't phone don't talk) the easier it should become to let him go. When you let go of someone its almost like a death and you need to mourne and then move on. Don't get caught up in what you CAN"T have-try what you can have..try safe dating(speed dating can be fun) or blind dates at a safe spot..finding the right person will help.

I say try, and see what happens. NEVER let siblings get in the way of a great romance. As for the scheduling, I;'m sure you both can work something out if you really like each other. Good luck!

try 2 find a better guy so u would forget him sooner or later

try talkin to him... but dont get turn into a maniac.... if its meant to be then it will work out no matter what... good luck

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