i have a fear that my gf doesnt love me like she says she does, have had this problem since my ex and i split?

Number one, you don't fully trust her if you're wondering if she's w/ another guy. Which will play tricks on ya when love does come into the picture. Could could say it and mean it 110% but if you don't trust her it won't mean much to ya. Really the key is communication. I know that's cliche, but hey..it is true. Sit and talk, the last thing you wanna do is sit there and wonder what she's doing where she's going who she's w/, and that will eat you up inside...trust me..lol..i've been there! It's not healthy for a relationship. Since it happened to you in the past anything that you see now that reminds you of that past relationship will make you think it's happening again. I mean who knows..it could be the same thing, that just means she's not the one for you..if you think she's worth fighting for and going through all this...then go for it...just realize you might get burned again...it's not a big deal. It happens everyday to millions. Just keep that head help high, don't wear your heart on your shoulder right now. Find out what you need to and drive on bud ;)

First of all, you should've gotten over the last gf before getting involved again.

The reason you're having problems with the new gf is because "you carried old baggage" in to the new relationship, which is generally what happens when you get involved with another too quickly.

You either have to learn to trust your own judgments, and learn to trust new gf, or leave her. It sounds like your new relationship is already heading down a destructive path.

If you don't learn to trust her, your new relationship is already heading towards a breakup. Doomed to end before it even lifted off the ground.

The fears you portray in your relationship has already been prophesied to end the relationship before it even started. And you will, if your not careful, will carry it out and make sure it does end, subconsciously. Change how you feel, or you will jeopardize what you've got. Then you'll blame her and destroy what could've been beautiful.

It's your call.

This feeling of yours is actually normal. You like her too much and worried of losing her. If she is meant for you, it will be tough to break both of you apart. So you should give her trust and space. Sometimes over-reacting and over-control of a person can be bad.

srry bro i cant help you out here. i just wanted to say i sorta feel where your goin with this though. its happenin right now to me