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What do you do when you are in love with two guys at the same time?

One I am with and the other we considered ourselves to be homies, lovers, and friends even though we are not together and our relationship is now a platonic relationship. The one I am with we plan on spending our lives together and the other wants to spend his life with me, but I am with someone already. I know one day I will have to chose utimately and let one go. Any advice will be appreciated and is it possible to be just be friends that are in love with one another without ruining my relationship.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    make a list of all the things that you like and do and than mark each one with the name of the guy that likes the same things you do. this way you will know that he is about you just as much as he would be about himself. also on that list put the things you dislike to do than do the same thing, this way you will see which guy you are trying to please by doing things you really dislike.

    pick the man that has more in common that you like because it's all about you in the end, you do want to be happy? right?

  • 1 decade ago

    Have a 3-way

  • 1 decade ago

    its wrong to use someone u need to make a choice and let one of these men go. It isnt right to toy with peoples emotions and that is what you are doing

  • 1 decade ago

    THIS HAS GOT TO BE ONE OF THE MOST IGNORANT QUESTIONS YET.

    YOU ARE JUST A PLAYER, AND YOU WANT VALIDATION. SORRY, YOU ARE WRONG. YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE PERSON. DIDN'T YOUR PARENTS TEACH YOU?

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  • 1 decade ago

    listen grl stay wit ur bf if that doesnt work out , if the other one loves that much he wait for you

  • 1 decade ago

    If you are playing two, then you don't deserve either one.

    Grow up

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe you need to move on, you can't have your cake and eat it to!

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