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This is my first question on YA. ( For The Ladies)?

For those who have experienced it and those who have not, would you like to see chivalry make a comeback or do you prefer the open it yourself attitude in today's relationships?

Do you think it would improve relationships for both parties?

Should it last throughout the relationship?

Do you think relationships would last longer with it?

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Thank you in advance for your responses.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I really appreciate when a man is chivalrous. I take it as a sign that he has some manners. That means a lot to a woman and I think people in general. I think it also shows that a man is being considerate of his partners feelings. At the same time I think a woman should be allowed to open the door for a man sometimes or pick up the bill too. It's not that she is being emasculating but she is showing respect as well. I do think relationships last longer when both parties knows the other one cares, to show extra effort is meaningful. Viva Chivalry!!

    Source(s): I have been lucky and been with chivalrous men!
  • 1 decade ago

    I'd like to see a little bit of chivalry come back. I don't think that chivalry will kill the Feminist Movement either. Just because a man wants to open a door for you, doesn't make you less of a woman. :) I think that it would improve relationships, in that a man will feel more empowered because he will feel like his significant other really needs him. I also think that it would make women feel more appreciated when a man does nice things for her. I also think that it should last throughout the relationship. It irritates me when men only do nice things until the girl is "theirs," and then they suddenly stop with the nice gestures. I'm a big fan of chivalry, and I don't think it should die out.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that chivalry would be an awesome comeback. Its been completely lost in our "modern" world. But I don't think that Chivalry has to come from a man to a woman. Why not the other way around as well?

    Another comeback to our society would be honor. Do we even know what that is anymore?

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that because of our society women are becomming more and more independant and getting used to doing things them selves I wonuld be very happy to see chivalry make a come back. You should be careful though it could offend some ladies. I think with the right combination it could last throughout the relatinship and it has a good chance of making it better

    Source(s): Personal experience
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I guess I'm one of the lucky ones and I experience chivalry on a daily basis and I love it!!! I sure hope it helps the relationship last longer and I'm sure it will last through the relationship because he's just that type of guy. Once you've dated a chivalrous guy, I don't think you can go back.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would like men to go back to being the man of the family. Also people stop running around having sex with everybody. And that more people got married! I think relationship would last longer and be more help full

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think it should make a HUGE comeback! There is nothing wrong with having doors open for us...and I think guys need to quit being so damn selfish!

    Sometimes I wouldn't mind opening doors for myself...but I can say that I have never had to...because either my dad/brother/or some other guy has done it for me!

  • 1 decade ago

    I have seen chivalry and it looks good, but I am the kind of girl who if you see my hands full then yes you can help out. without asking. on the same token I don't mind it being reversed. I do nice things for my guys.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that it would be nice to have that in a relationship but every relationship starts to get comfortable after awhile and no matter even if you do keep it up, me personally it would get on my nerves after awhile. But that is just me and the way i am.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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