Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

why why why?

i & he working in the same building but diferent department

we r good friends but why do people aroung us making gossip

saying we are having affairs - which is not true

what should i do with this people

15 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    People are jealous of your "platonic" relationship. They do not understand friendship between a man and a woman. Just ignore their stupidity. Once you start saying something, they'll think you are denying it becoause what they assume is true. Just ignore them

  • 1 decade ago

    Ignore them. Every office has gossips. They are bored with thier life and have to try to make up some stupid stuff to make someone elses life misserable. Once they realize they arent getting anywhere with you two, they will move on to other gossip and start all over again. Be the bigger person and dont let it get to you.

  • rosey
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Ignore them. As long as you are friends with someone of the opposite sex at your workplace, there will always be someone who accuses you of having an affair. If this is really bothering you, you can consult with the human resource dept. to see if they can help you to resolve the gossiping.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ignore it they have no proof and you know what is the truth. It is just work office gossip. They will move on to someone else when your gossip gets old do not worry about it.

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sounds like their may be something more between you too, if so it might be wise to be a tad more discreet at the office. if it is only friendship then it might be wise to include some work collegues in your conversations, lunches, social time. stick to your guns and keep your head cool. goodluck

  • 1 decade ago

    Well there's really nothing you can do but ignore those people. Really. I don't know why some people are so fond of gossiping. Losers.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ignore them or make it clear that you guys aren't a couple or tell your manager bacause thats kind of harrasing.

  • NoMaD!
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Ignore them, ignorance is like a disease in the workplace. Let it be their problem, when you start chiping in it only causes it to become your problem.

    -NmD!

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You know the truth and he knows the truth, let it go. People will talk no matter - who cares what they think?

  • 1 decade ago

    beat the dog **** out of them then go rape your man

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.