I'm Capricorn female, my boyfriend is Aries. Help.?

I have some advice. All of that astrology stuff is COMPLETELY MADE UP. If you're not compatible, it's because of one of you, not when you were born or the position of the planets.

Hello Miss, I will tell u something. Capriconians are people who stick to their point and however clarified about the opposite persons points will generally not accept. Aries on the other hand are very tactful, little bossy and are extroverts. i somehow feel that this is the point which is the main reason for ur problems. try coming outside ur world and try to understand what the other person is telling. Aries on the other hand have a quality, if u surrender, they are Gods

First of all I'm not too sure that i believe in all that stuff...however I too am a Capricorn and the father of my kids is an Aries....we too had constant conflicts, and now we haven't been together for 3 yrs....good riddance

I too am a Capricorn and my husband of 7 years is an Aries. I can tell your our relationship has had its ups and downs but I don't believe in all that astrology stuff. It takes 2 to make a relationship to work and if 1 of is not willing to do that then it's just not going to work.

My first marriage was with a Capricorn male. I am an Aries female. It was explosive. I do however get along with Capricorns in a working enviroment.

Honey you can not go by what the stars say. It doesn't matter if mars is lined up with jupiter or not. They have nothing to do with the heart. It is your personnalities. If both of you are very stubborn people of course you are going to have problems. If he likes to stay home and you want to go out yes you will disagree. Love is a strange thing. It has nothing to do with the stars it is all a matter of finding what works for the two of you. If you feel strongly about going out one night make a compramise with something he wants to do. It is all a matter of give and take.

If I were to go by what the stars said, my fiance and I would have killed eachother a long time ago but instead we have worked on out strengths and weaknesses and built on that and we have been together for 4yrs and we anticipate being together for life.

If your looking at the stars for advice its no wonder your needing help.

Dont you know its all HYPE, some thing else to worry about. I spent as an Aries 11years fighting with my Capricorn (f) partner, before I saw the light.

Trust your own instincts not like a dopey star searcher, looking for answers from space.!!!!

You've already answered your own question:

"I know all the ways we are not compatible, believe me!"

It doesn't matter if you are incompatible because of your signs or your personality. One way or another, you know you are incompatible. You may learn ways to cope with your conflicts, but your incompatibilities are not going to go away or get better. Thats it.

So, you should learn to let this go so you can each find someone you are more compatible with.

You could Pretend Astrology isn't helpful,..

Or you could look closely at things that conflict in your life and use the traits of your signs to start out the list.

You may want to also have your charts done for more details on yourselves (if you want to keep following Astrology as a guide) those other factors can effect how you really are that conflicts with your sign (some people have triple or double something that isn't their main sign and it makes them more like that) and examine those point.

I think the website is/was Astro.com that gave good detailed charts. But when you have things on cusp or between places that might not work out right (I have that problem,.. every time someone does my chart, even if it's the same problem or person some things want to switch because they are on lines).

Still try to make list of problems, pros, cons, likes, dislikes, what you are eahc haveing problems with,.. see if you can work things out because it sound like you can communicate so that might be the best thing for you.

Don't focus on your astrological signs... focus on eachother.. just beucase a fortune cookie says youre not compatible that is a lie!