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Is it time I stopped making plans for Nigel?

He says he's happy, but I'm not sure, I think maybe he´s just pushing us away so he can sink into self-pitying isolation. My mate says that if he says he´s happy, then he must be happy in his world. But I only want what´s best for him. What do you think?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    i think that if you keep going on at Nigel you are going to alienate him. so stop bugging out.

    what you perceive as happiness could be another person's hell.

    so be a friend and try not to control him. if you see him falter pick him up. but you have to allow him to make his own mistakes, otherwise he won't thank you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wow! XTC! Now there's a definite blast from the past! I have not heard those guys in like years! I inherited my older sister's records and XTC's Towers of London was one of them. I can remember them on some kids' tv show performing Generals and Majors when i was just a nipper.

    I grew up into punk later and pick up any definitive punk history cd and those guys are on it. Either Nigel, Towers or Generals will be on it.

    FYI, Andy Partridge is a record producer in Wales.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like an emotional vampire,, sucks the life energy from everyone around him.

    Walk away,, nothing good can come pity and self loathing.

  • Ithink that by now nigel will have grown up,re the year this record was released

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think that if young Nigel says he's happy

    He must be happy

    He must be happy in his work

    Nigel is not outspoken

    But he likes to speak

    And he loves to be spoken to

    Nigel is happy in his work

  • 1 decade ago

    Who's nigel? I'm confused! What did i miss??? Sorry.

  • malcy
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Yeah after 20+ years he should be able to look after himself by now.

  • 1 decade ago

    About time he made his own choices!

  • 1 decade ago

    Definitely, pack it in. He's so sick of you and your odious repetitive song xxx

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He's happy, leave him alone. oooohh oooohh

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