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Attracting ladies.Women only.?

Why is it that the more cocky and arrogant I act like,the more it seems as though women are attracted to me?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Some woman are idiots and think they'll be the one to capture your heart and see it as a challenge. I've heard other men say that and it only attracts stupid, insecure woman.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I cannot stand arrogant or cocky guys. It totally turns me off. On the other hand you can't be a pushover or have no self-esteem either. You need to find a balance of humbleness and confidence. A mixture would be nice. Just be yourself most importantly. The personality is the number one thing I look for in a guy. He could look like a model but if he was too conceited or had a personality of a wet rag, I would not take a second look! I love funny guys--any guy with a sense of humor is good in my book and it displays confidence!!

    Just stay true to yourself most importantly and for goodness sake SMILE, too many guys don't smile enough. A smile breaks the ice! :) Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't know why because that is a big turn off to me. Maybe some women like it because it kinda shows you are secure with yourself and don't care what others think. That is attractive to a certain degree. So I guess it depends on how cocky and arrogant you act.

  • Barbi
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    A lot of girls think that if you are acting cocky, that you have a reason for your arrogance. There must be something great going on in your life, etc.

    I for one, cant stand the cocky guys. But to each its own.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Women like bad boys.... although I can honestly say that I don't know why anyone would be attracted to arrogance.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Because you are attracting women with low self esteem and your ego feeds off their insecurities. This means you have abusive tendencies and you need to be put in your place.

  • attila
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    women are attracted to confidence, no woman will ever hide that fact.

    but being cocky will get annoying fast.

    men who are unsure about themselves just seem weak and spineless.. no fun.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    women like confident men. They want a challange but not a jerk

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    women love a confident man but not an asshole. Confidence is very sexy.

  • 1 decade ago

    women like aggression

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