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What to do?

Have you ever been so in love with a person that you could die because of them? But they can't make up their mind of what they want. One minute they want you, the next they act like they hate you? What should one do with a situation like that?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    take things easy, think before you speak and give the person space. Do the above things though... it will help lessen your regret later.

    Not easy things to do... but you can't make someone feel the same, time is EVERYTHING and more often than not...love sucks.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have been in the SAME deal.

    You break up with them. It will hurt you at first, but once they realize how it is without you, they will make their final decision.

    It is because you love that person so much, and that person knows it, so they will ponder about if they want to be with you or not because psychologically, they know you will be there no matter what choice they make. It gives this person a big wake up call when you tell them that its over.

    Source(s): My ex was like that, and I took him back a couple times, then I said enough and I didnt even answer his calls, and now he wants me back more than ever.... but im still not ready to have him, even though I still love him, he must learn the lesson.
  • 1 decade ago

    It appears he is not ready to make a big decission as you have.

    Either discuss it with him and see where he's at but don't let him treat you any different than as a perfect gentleman. If he acts like he hates you now what makes you think he would change with marriqage. Maybe you should back off that will let you know where he is at.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm guilty of that too but i told the guy to wait for me. in the meantime, stay a friend. she'll slowly and surely fall for you if you just be yourself. be patient with her. some people are afraid of commitment.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, i've found that the best thing you can do is distance yourself mentally from that person. they can't hurt you unless you let them.

  • 1 decade ago

    dont mind those things..

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