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I like a guy at work. He is gorgeous, kind, christian, biker, do-gooder. I'm a heathen. Could it work & how?

This dude is smoking hot. I'm talking about the type of guy that has it all; looks, tall, good attitude, excellent job, cares about others, animals & the environment, and the same religious background as me. He's a well-balanced individual and I am the complete opposite. He's seemingly perfect.

I am chubby, bitchy, have excellent job, despise most others, same religious background as him, have a wondering eye, would throw a BK wrapper in the park, would trip an elderly person with a walker and kick a lame dog.

How can our two worlds collide and things go positively? What can I do folks?

He speaks to me, has made me cds, followed me to my department and stired up conversation. I'm torn and confused.

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  • Johan
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    sit together... tell Mr.Ho" yo, babe, you know how bad i am.. im ur complete opposite...(hold his hand if u can) and say im desparately in love with u..

    see if it works..

    im heathen too

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's obvious this man has an interest in you. Many men, myself included, find (chubby), I hate that description, let's say voluptuous , women attractive. You have two choices here, as I see it. You can either be yourself, which he already finds attractive, or you can be who you think he'll be attracted to, which he isn't. Be yourself kiddo, if he likes you, great, if he doesn't, his loss. On the spiritual matter, he's a christian. You were raised as one, why u running girl? Don't run so far that u can't find your way back. I know, I almost got lost. Tell this guy how u feel. If it's meant to be then it will be. Better yet, pray, ask God, he's better at answers than I am or Yahoo. Good Luck.

  • doti
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    I went to a Pentecostal church for a strong 8 years; and then I delved into Paganism. "do you imagine that having a Christian practise would have had the opposite result on many babies, sending them to Atheism and Paganism, incredibly than making them strong Christians as they develop into hoping?" i wager that extremely relies upon on how strictly enforced the conception equipment is. The better harshly that's implicated, the better the youngster will elect to get faraway from it; and vice-versa. For me it develop into annoying and demonic. Being dragged to church... Sitting status sitting status sitting status--greeting time--then back to persistently sitting and status for hours. then you actually had the hyppocrites... and the fundamentalists... and the overall "you're going to Hell" old women. i'm no longer particular how Pentecostal church homes artwork lately, and by no skill all of them are a similar, yet that's how mine develop into... maximum of my closest acquaintances are Christian, and performance been so when you consider that they were little babies; so, this leads back to the implication and approach aspect. typically speaking, if someone would not like some thing, they don't persist with it. :3

  • 1 decade ago

    It's probably not going to work with things the way they are. If you are like you say, he will probably annoy the p*ss out of you because he is just so good and you can't be all the time. It may work if you become more like him but that's gonna be pretty hard work for you. Who knows though.. Mr. Perfectly happy & good just could be the thing to make you feel wonderful about those elderly people from now on... but I seriously doubt it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You don't seem to value yourself much from the way you talk about yourself. He is obviously interested in you, and it could work. You need to figure what you need to do to show him you're the right woman for him. What is he looking for in a woman? Can you be that for him? Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    "I am chubby, bitchy," you dont say .

    maybe you need to change your attitude first and then act like men owe u something cause you female , a chubby one at that

  • 1 decade ago

    Simple ...sit for some times alone and think wat to do and let the disicion be taken by heart because only heart know how much u like

    all the best

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