how do u do it?

if u guys need a break u need a break. but why go on one if both u guys don't exactly want to. if ur thinking of taking a break make it for a good reason. do u guys have good reason? and if u do go on a break then u have to fight those urges to want to see him. u have to remember that ur going on a break to give ur selves some alone time.

and wen u see him during ur break then its not gonna do any good for either of u. don't go on a break just becasue u guys have been going out for ages. go on one coz u really need it. wow i noe i'v said the word break a lot in this. but seriously think about it. talk to each other about where u both are in the realationship and see if a break is really wat u need.

if you feel that it's right to take some time apart then you have to do it head strong. make it a week (realistically) no phone calls, im, myspace, no nothin. you both know how each other feels, and if that's the case, then there's no reason why a few days or a week will do anything to ruin your relationship. it may even make it stronger. but if you have that time to really think it over and that connection is no longer there, then at least you've found out before it got too deep.

the thing is that if you go on an official break, then it might end up as breaking up or it might because when you are on a break its like being single again, with a "promise" of getting back together again, but the thing is you might lose whats left of your feelings or you might regain what you had lost. but i dont want to take that chance