Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Am I wrong for leading someone on?.?

I've been with this guy since April of this year but in June he had gotten locked up. I told myself that I was going to wait on him but in September another guy came along that has been trying to talk to me for 4 years. So I finally gave him a chance but I feel in love with him and it really wasn't my intentions. Yet I don't know how to break it off with the guy that is in jail because I've met the whole family which is making it even harder to let him go. What should I do?. Who should I stay with?.

6 Answers

Relevance
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Given that you have recently been dating a guy who is now in jail, I think you need to discontinue ALL relationships and spend some time thinking about your priorities and what you want in a long-term relationship. Obviously, you are not thinking clearly. If you simply possess very low standards, I hope you will consider raising your standards. Look for an educated man who is responsible, doesn't do drugs, and has good values.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't lead anyone on. That will hurt the other person more than the rejection. No one can tell you who to stay w/, that's something only you can decide cause you're the one who has to live w/ the choices you make. But, whatever you do is affecting other peoples lives. At least be up front and real w/ these other people. It's the decent thing to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    hi..

    see, its upto u 2 choose.

    think abt both men.. while u havent remained loyal 2 the guy in jail, tat is understandable.. in his absence u found consolation or solace in someon els's company.. tat happens.. but now u must realy think hard abt the plus n minus points of both des men.

    u shud also consider whetr the reason that man wentu jail, may affect ur futur life wit him if u choose him..

    weigh ur feelings for both men.. think wat'll for out best in terms of family.. who'l make a better husband? whom wil ur folks like more? who's company makes u more happy? der r so many questions!!

    go ahead!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well now since u have fallen in love with the other guy...its better u brk up with d guy in d lock up...cause if u still continue with d guy in d lock up ur gonna regret it ur whole life....the fact that u mite have had a better relation with the other guy will always be there in ur mind and eventually it will spoil ur dis relation too...so better is to talk to d guy in d jail....try and make him undertsand..its gonna b difficult but u gotta do it...All d best...tc

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 1 decade ago

    Well personally i say stay with the guy you with, why would you want a guy who in jail, you have to suffer because this guy got locked you are with someone that you wanted, girl dont be dumb , he will understand if he dont all well then.

  • lex
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    do you really need to scrape the bottom of that barrel,?,what if next time he does something worse,,you could find yourself forever visiting prison,if that is how you see your future husband?go for it ,,,,if you would prefer someone for whom prison would never happen you should date someone like that,,it is your life,,write to him and say its over.you have the right to date whomever you wish but at present he isnt here to take you anywhere is he . dont date beneath yourself,you will regret it.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.