Can you finish the sentence so that my boyfriend will get a clue?

3somes

watching tv, being served and cleaned after, having someone else to get up and get me a beer during commercials

NO SERIOUSLY a relationship should invole participation by both parties, consideration for the time and effort spent by spouse for doing the things that we appreciate and often take for granted, mutual respect and sincerity, loyalty and desire, a love for each other, a lesting bond, and GOOD not one sided passionate sex in which both parties give their all to the one they've saved it for their one and only lover

but mainly cooking and cleaning and getting beer

There's more to a relationship than cooking, cleaning, and having sex. I love you and want to spend every second with you,(saying those with those cute puppy eyes) but can't you be the same too? then ask him for a big hug :)

Communicating, being on the same page, honest, having fun with one another...etc...etc...

you prob have the last one down bu the first two your bf is still trying to get you to learn

Communicating, supporting each other, and making sure your mate is happy.

Having fun

being romantic W/ sex or anything like that

having a friendship relationship too, and also just being there for one another (emotionally).

Trust and honesty

talking, compromising, and respecting each other.