what are your thinking about when making love?

my wife !

and how good it is ! ♠

Well luv, in my case I don't really "think" of anything at all; I just let myself feel as much as I can! Sometimes I will entertain a few secret fantasies, but usually sex with my hubby is so intense and incredibly satisfying that I don't usually have the time to concentrate on anything else but what we are doing at that moment!

Last night by the way, he was riding me like there was no tomorrow! I must have orgasmed at least 3 or 4 times... It was a blast! I think I needed a good shag like that!

Hmmmm good question. I used to imagine myself always relying on personnal fantasies in order to keep myself stimulated during sex.... And then I started having sex, and then I met my wifey (she posted an answer on this question) and we started having amazing mind blowing heart-attack indusing sex, and my whole concept of mental detatchment went through the window...

However, here's the real deal; I wasn't always as satisfied with sex as I am now with my wifey. There was a time when I would imagine p*rn stud Peter North being with us as we were having sex, like having a 3-way with Peter North...

Well things changed and sex once again got further up in the intensity factor, and these days I find myself unable to think of anything else during sex with my wife, except how intense it is, and how to control my ejaculations, because it is so good (the sex) that I don't want to pop prematurely... So often I will try to look away from her during sex, just to keep myself distracted enough to NOT orgasm.

That's pretty much the extend of it. Sorry, I know it's boring, but what can I say?

I also used to think I would fantasize about Tiffany Mynx giving me a BJ when my wife would BJ me, but as I found out, my wifey is a BJ artist extraordinaire making any thoughts impossible to entertain for more than a 1/2 second at a time!

Finally, sometimes when my wifey wants me to "c-u-m" with her (simultaneous orgasm) during sex, I try to imagine various kinky things that will make me "get there" faster, close enough to her orgasm. These kinky thought usually involve external ejaculation visuals.

Hope this has helped you!

Cheers

I usually think of co-workers or females at my school, I feel there is nothing wrong with that as long as do not call her by a different name.

Also the mind is amazing and giving your Brain a rest from the hassles of life and just using the imaginary part of your brain is as fun as all out doors.

Please try it, you will be amazed how it feels imagining having sex with your homeboys girl Friend while your girl friend is riding you into springs of your posture Selle mattress. It's to addictive.

Warning- Do not attempt this with porn, that's dangerous.

Also do not do this little escape every time your having sex.

Well when I was making love, I was thinking about the emotion, feeling and the person that I was having it with and how much I cared for him. Making love, is obviously different than just a quick f*ck, (even if it is with the same person) so more emotion is involved than lust I think. But that hasnt happened for me in a LONG time.

this is a good question! really!

Oh there's a lot of things that pops up in my head...

like im going to get more of this than my exercise...hehehe! Use it as exercise...

oh there i times i remember making love with my x's...

or things he would do at the moment!

or wish he can do it faster!

or what could be my next move???!!!

what could he be thinking...

or sometimes just plain nothing and enjoyment!!! :)

Ryuken, I don't consider this topic as being suited for discussion in the open here cos several young ones are here. We can discuss that on 1-on-1 basis. Contact me through my profile now, and we'll be on. cya soonest.

well b4 my fiance i was always scared and thinking that i wasnt doing something right and going over the motions in my head but now I just relax and take it all it and enjoy every second of it!

I much I love this man and how I need to get off.

Man, this is way more fun than answering questions on Yahoo!

Nothing except what I am feeling at that moment.