is it ok if your boyfriend calls your bestfriend all the time?

umm...nope

Ditch his little butt now. You dont need a man to be acting like that when he is supposed to be interested in you. If he really respects you he wouldnt be talking to other girls in an innapprpriate fashion.

No. He's not ready to commit to you. Don't expect him to be faithful if you do get back together. And your friend should stay away from him too. He sounds like a people user.

No, kick his behind to the curb! Your so called friend needs to get kicked to the curb too! She shouldn't be talking to him on the phone about "nasty stuff"...

I think you know what the answer is. Are you asking on Yahoo to see if your own reasoning is wrong? Well, you are right, and you should not go any further with this sleazeball.

no its not OK. he's either pumping her for info on you or trying to get with her. from your question it seems like he wants to be friends with benefits with u and is asking your best friend if you would go for it. if i was you i would come out and ask him what he expects of you and take it from there.

Girl, just drop him. I think he is getting it on with your friend and she just doesnt want to tell you. Or your friend is jealous and doesnt want to see you happy so she is telling you that. Why dont you ask him about it and see how he acts. Then you should know what to do.

I would ditch both of them. A true friend would not entertain this kind of talk from her friend's ex.

wake up honey , it is not good to be used.

do u want to be used?

his not going any further with your relationship

your friend is pointing the picture in front of you and not hiding it.

Only if you want to be maid of honor at thier wedding. Seriously, why are they talking?

Come on now. You know wus up. Be smart. Be careful next thing you know he will ask you and her for a threesome.