Guys, why do you act this way?

he could like her but be embarrassed of her at the same time..

I agree with "crazy_tentacle's" answer. Basically, men have feelings too. We will initiate the conversations, ask women on dates, and even try to show insurmountable interest in the ladies for maybe the first couple of dates. Additionally, if the girl is interested in us, she will return the favor. Because, it gets really awkward and makes us feel like we're coming on too strong if the girl never calls us back to tell us that she really enjoys our company or even try to hint at another possible date. Most of us are nice guys, and we try to not be too pushy. So, if you're interested in a guy after a first date. Just leave a message, email, or even just a little hint that you liked him and...if he's interested in you....don't worry, he'll be back for more.

Perhaps a guy feels that to start something off he has to put in a bit of effort. After a time the effort should become more equal. E.g. if he started by calling all the time you shouldn't expect this to continue, you should call him sometimes too.

If this doesn't happen he may feel that rewards aren't worth the effort.

If you try to speak to him normally and get blanked then you are better off without him.

(Could also be immaturity if you are still at school.)

Well I had a girl I liked but I saw her taking to a 3 guys(1 was a friend) and dated them secretly. Well it blew up in her face & people consider her a "hoe" Maybe I should start talkin' to her?

Women naturally and instinctively attract men. They usually do not have to make an approach. They could be admired and not feel it unless men approach them.

Women naturally selects their lovers.

Men are less choosy... They are basically enginered with a :"first come first served"... sort of mechanism.

This explain why men like butterflies taste every flower and give themselves interludes...

....UNLESS they FALL in love.... and when they do............... they are trapped !!!!!!! haha !!

Conclusion : of all those men you are meeting so far , none is yet in love with you.

TRAP ONE ... and you will change your mind about men.

Good luck sweetie !!

He's playing games

Maybe they found out that she really WAS just a waste of time, and they want somebody else.

i would only do that if i was confused od if i didint like the girl anymore

Because he's not that into you. Move on.