Thanksgiving Dilemma!?

since your mom was unavailable at first you were free to make alternate plans

explain it to her and tell you will see her for Christmas

if she gets upset ask her how she would feel if you called her to change your plans after you had accepted her invitation

she is the one who said she was unavailable

send her some flowers to let her know you are thinking of her

Tell mum, that after she told you she was working for thanksgiving, you told dad you would go there.

So she already made your decision for you.

Tell her ..I"m sorry mum, but I've already commited myself to dad.

Spend part of the day with your mom and the evening part with dad.

Go over to your Dad's house for lunch and for dinner go to your Mom's.

My parents are divorced also, so I know about the holiday marathon. How about seeing if you can get them each to adjust their dinner time a little, so you can go to both?

Happy Holidays!

Spend the afternoon with one and the evening with the other.

Spend a couple hours at each place!

It appears that your father has people visiting with him and that your mum doesnt i would go to your mum's