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A true Love Connection?
I am an Aquarius, my boyfriend is a Libra. I love him but I don't know if I should continue. He says he is not ready to get married (after 2.5 years living together) and I am. Should I wait for him to make up his mind or should I leave? I also have a 3 year old son (from a previous marriage) that loves him, so that puts a wrench into things.
If it helps, I was born on 2/10/1982 (24)
He was born on 11/04/76 (30)
Sry. He was born 10/04/76 (30)
9 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Aquarius & Libra
When Libra and Aquarius join in a love match, their relationship can serve to heighten and strengthen both Signs' consciousness. These two connect on a high mental level; they share a love of art, people and culture; they both abhor restrictive influences in their lives. They are likely to get along well because they have such similar needs and will not require more of one another than they're both willing to give. Both Signs are also very energetic, enthusiastic types; this relationship is not likely to become stagnant.
Both Aquarius and Libra are concerned with the betterment of the world and their fellow people. Aquarius is the most progressive thinker of the Zodiac, and they always have a new idea in the works. Libra is the diplomat of the Zodiac; abhorring conflict of any sort, they are born balancers (hence their Symbol, the Scales). Libra's urge to avoid conflict put together with a love of intellectual freedom can lead them to be somewhat indecisive at times; when this happens, more decisive Aquarius can step in and help Libra figure out which direction to turn. Libra can return the favor by smoothing Aquarius's occasionally ruffled feathers that result from the Water Bearer's idealistic thinking sometimes crashing down in the face of reality.
Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus (Love) and Aquarius is ruled by the Planets Uranus (Rebellion) and Saturn (Karma). This combination of influences can be an interesting and productive one; Libra and Aquarius should certainly take on other projects together than simply their love relationship, because they can make great things happen using their hearts, their urge for progress and their consciousness of the greater good. These two are an extraordinary duo for standing up for social justice or radical change in the community.
Both Libra and Aquarius are Air Signs. They have strong intellectual bonds to one another and constantly stimulate one another's ideas and communication styles and skills. Again, their ability to work together makes it obvious that these two Signs must take on larger projects in their life together -- they should concern themselves with the greater good. Libra can bring a certain balance to any undertaking that almost no other Sign is able to achieve. Aquarius and Libra together will also have many stimulating intellectual discussions about their interests and pursuits.
Libra is a Cardinal Sign and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Libra sets things into motion but may have trouble finishing them, which is what makes Aquarius's determined influence so positive: The Water Bearer has a great deal of follow-through and can take Libra's ideas and run with them to the end. These two work especially well together as they tend not to argue about who does what, who takes credit and who works behind the scenes versus out in the spotlight.
What's the best aspect of the Libra-Aquarius relationship? Their ability to work together as a team. Together they can learn much more than either Sign would alone. Their accomplishments and love of socializing and new projects make theirs a highly successful relationship.
- Anonymous5 years ago
I have some very good friends who met and eventually decided to get married based on an introduction via the internet. I wouldn't advise putting everything you feel into a simple feeling on what you are exchanging on the internet. If you feel the relationship DOES have something special, arrange a meeting in a public place WITH A TRUSTED FRIEND PRESENT and see how things progress. Remember that most people 'pad' their resume as it were, and he may not be everything he describe himself as being. YOu also might want to reveiw your own profile to him as you are thinking there might be more to this than meets the eye. Good luck.
- 1 decade ago
Don't leave and don't worry about being married. You already live with him and have developed a life together. What is marriage? Do you not have a marriage already (minus the government paperwork)? It sounds like you should just leave things as they are. Love is love, regardless of whether or not you say "I do".
- 1 decade ago
I really dont know what the reasons are that he has given you as to why he does not want to get married. I was with my husband for seven years before we got married 3 years ago. If you really love him and he loves you and is treating with respect and he's loving your child as his own, I woul say hang in there.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Novem 4th is Scorpio not a great match for you
plus thats way too long...He shouldhve proposed by now..why waste more time....hes getting all the milk for free....
- KawainaniLv 41 decade ago
He is a scorpio. You guys hate eachother to a point. He irritates you and he wants to be possesive. Forget it. Get a Libra instead.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If you try to rely on astrology to make major life decisions, you'll be disappointed time after time.
You know the man, go with your gut feeling.
- lilyLv 51 decade ago
well, you see your problem started when you moved in together, and exposed your son to hurt in the future...
- 1 decade ago
I think that your sign and his sign says that you should leave him especially if he doesn't believe in this.
I can't believe that you would base your life on stars.