my friends saids it ok to let her 14 year old daughter?

I agree that its wrong, but its not your place to tell her whats right and whats wrong.

I was in that position when I was 14, I met my boyfriend and was with him for 9 years, my mum would never let us stay and didnt even know I was having sex, but my bf's mum let us stay at hers and in the same bed, and at the time I thought she was great, but now looking back at it, I wish it hadnt happened that way.

I am pregnant now and wouldnt dream of letting my son or daughter have their partner to stay at that age.

You can advise her that her daughter may not thank her for it in the future, but there is nothing else you can do really, sorry

Nope, nope and nope! of direction it is not ok :( The age hollow could be great in the journey that your daughter grew to become into 40 4 and he grew to become into 40 yet rather... 18 and 14? For starters she ought to finally finally end up in detention center very actual if the boy's mothers and dads disapprove. Then there is the face that the little scamp's jacobs have not even dropped yet... heavily, its a detrimental pass and that i might kill that relationship in the previous it takes root and destroys extra suitable than one existence.

It's her daughter, it's her own business.

Is it okay? Well, is it okay for a 21 years old daughter to marry her 28 year old boyfriend and lived in her mother's house?

Is it okay for a 3 years old daughter to sleep with her 5 year old boyfriend and sleep in the same bed at her mother's house?

Just as long that the mother able to manage them and there's no conflict, then I guess it's okay.

NO way would it be my fourteen year old sleeping with her sixteen year old boyfriend. What has she bought her up like to want to sleep with a boy at 14 for heavens sake?

First of all no mother can do/behave like that. You may be having some wrong objections. If your daughter is behaving on her own;first try to convince her that whatever she is doing is wrong then just leave her & let her face the consequences. She may want to know the world with her own experiences....

I think its wrong. I have a daughter 12 year old, and i even cant think about that possibility. I think its too early for a girl.She is still developing, she is growing.

I know it wouldn't be happening here in my house with my daughter and she is ALMOST that age. I would have a foot up BOTH there A***

Well, obviously your friend has a different way of raising her kid...I would simply say that if she wants to be forking over money to take care of her granddaughter (if that ends up happening), then let her do it. Her money.

depends on wat u mean sleep. u say sleep in the same bed....... bit confusing plz explain anyways......... sex at 14 is bad but i reckon at least the mum is willing to let her have sex under her roof then on the street. but if its just sleep as in "goodnite sleep" well it isnt that bad but i still wouldnt let my daughter wen she hits 14 do that

Yes it is wrong. Neither one of them are of legal age and when he is 18 she will still be under age and is jail bait.