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bf breaks up w/me. how long do i wait for him to respond to my request to return my belongings?

boy breaks up with girl to go back with ex. was blindsided. broken heart. hurt. sad. no problem. long distance never works. all i want is to drop off his stuff and pick up mine. initially he agreed but is not responding to my request to verify the date and time. I'M the one driving 175 miles and all i want is a response so i don't waste my time going up there and have him not be home.

i am 38 he is 25 (and it was goooood) so i understand the immaturity factor. but i'm TRYING to do the right thing and finish this so i can get closure and move on.

do i just drop off his stuff and hope he is home? do i drop his stuff and write off my stuff as a lost cause? (i have some expensive camping and hiking equipment at his place) do i go ghetto on his *** and get mad? (really dont want to do that) do i keep calling, emailing and texting him requesting a response? my messages are NOT emo and im not the psycho ex. just simple and to the point. i just want my stuff. no lectures please. no bs.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    hold his stuff until he sets a date with you for you to get yours.

  • sheryl
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    4 years ago

    nicely it is user-friendly. how lengthy have you ever been with him? is this your 1st brake up or only between the various? i have been threw all of it so that you'll question me. i only those days were given back with my bf of three a million/2 yrs after about a month aside because i concept he replaced into taking income of me too. yet the different cases we were aside i waited between a million week and a pair of. and if he hasn't tried any project then will be you should attempt. adult males do not want to be that one it fairly is attempting to come again at the same time so now and again you have to be the single to do it. and do not imagine that he would not care cuz he will be feeling a similar way deep interior yet those boys were given lots of delight. i wasn't waiting to enable him bypass so i said as him or wrote him a touch letter letting him understand how i felt. You cant bypass on questioning "what if?"

  • i have went through that it wasnt that much of a distance it was only 10 mins but i would try and get a hold of him again then if he dont answer i would drive there if he aint there or doesnt answer the door i would go to the police station and tell them the situation and ask if there is any way they can help thats what i had to do it sucked but it worked and know he trys to talk to me and what not well good luck on geting ur stuff back

  • 1 decade ago

    I would go ghetto if he doesn't respond let him know you want your things.If you have any proof or people to verify those things r your then just call an officer to escort you to get your things.He can't say know or ignore you then.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Let's see.... in simple math

    38/25 = 0 + X

    Value of X is also 0

    Write it off

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