how can i explain to my boyfriend of 3 years that im just not that into sex ALL THE TIME?! i meen, ok.not 24/7

Then decide if you want to be with him. Perhaps if he's a "Wham bam thank you m'am", you need to teach him to slow down and fulfill your needs first.

If that's not the case, then you really need to think about things:

He likes a lot of sex.

You don't.

Either decide that you want sex but want to have your needs met first or if you're not into sex everyday let him know and say it will not be happening.

Then don't be surprised if he leaves for someone more compatable. Perhaps though you need someone more compatable as well.

I think you are lucky to have a person , full of life , better start taking care of your health and develop good food habits , ensure you must have all the three heartly meals and go for morning walk / jogging and light excercise & meditation , which help you to maintain a balanced active and full of energy life to enjoy your time now with this man , at later age every thing will be like dream/ memories , your body will not allow you to participate for all these act , take full advantage of your young age .

I am in the exact same situation but coming from a guys point of view. You would think that males want sex all the time right? My girlfriend wants sex all the time when I come home from work at 8 in the morning, in the afternoon, and in the evening, now I know your thinking I am gay or bi, no I am not. When I tell her I don't want to have sex she completely gets irritated and ignores me. I work from midnight to 8 and I come home completely tired with other things to worry about.

I don't know, what I do know is if you continue to have sex when you don't want to you will start to grow resenment towards him. You will begin to question yourself, "Do I even like sex?"

I hope everything works out for you but if it doesn't and one day you meet someone new don't pretend you like it all the time. Just be yourself.

Sorry but I just don't have the answer, just what is possibly going to happen if you say nothing.

Sounds like you should be happy that someone is that into you. Second. If your wondering why a man always have sex on his mind, Then you need to start doing some research, Just tell him how it's gonna be, he will get used to it.

Maybe he feels your relationship is soley based on sex. If so, you need to correct him and tell them there are OTHER parts of a relationship that have nothing to do with getting him off.

Your bf associates a relationship with sex all the time and I think he is using you. Because you said he always talks about it. Have a good conversation with him to see his reaction.

let me start off with most men are scum...

then most men are addicted to pornography and that causes a really strong sex drive.

its also disrespectful and damaging and they objectify women... and its really selfish... Love should be selfless this si why sex before marraige is absolutely retarded... why? soul ties... the two peoples souls come to be intertwined the purpose for unity in marraige... cuz you ahve already decided to be with this person forever and realized they are your equal... and you want to be with them forever.

but trying out and screwing people you dont even know if you want to be with forever... takes a part of you soul and ya heart ... and gives it to them that is why break ups and divorces hurt so much.

God has created ssomeone for each of us... but that requires submitting to hima nd waiting for his perfect will... its ok im used to being flamed... but i speak the truth

Flame away... this time plz try some pineapple bbq sauce ppl :D

just tell that youdont want sex all the time you want to other suff like going out with him you schold sex all the time cause would enjoy be when you have

You need to have a serious talk with him. Why does he feel the need to have sex all the time? Is he addicted to you or the sex? I suspect it is the sex and therefore, if he doesn't get it from you, is he likely to get it from somewhere else?