About sex, which is better?

Sex become very important reason for divorce, as you know.

If you consider this, it is better to make love before wedding, the couple should understand how they can match each other.

Ok...........clearly there are pros and cons to each argument here and it's up to you to decide which you will feel more comfortable with.

Sex before marriage - Allows you to have intimate knowledge of the person you wish to (potentially) spend the rest of your life with. People harp on about being "compatible" with their partner in so many social aspects but omit to mention that sexual compatibility is deemed to be very high on the list and thus an important aspect of any relationship.

If abiding by a "No sex before marriage" standpoint, you will truly be able to give yourself to your husband/wife but as anyone knows who has had any sexual experience, their first time was not exactly the best.........as we all know "practice makes perfect". Wouldn't it be better to offer something of more substance? Especially as the weddign night is supposed to be "magical"!!

Having sex before marriage so you know what you are getting.

do you mean would the actual sex be better or are you asking morally? morally that would mean everyone being a virgin until theyre wedding night!(men included!) the actual act itself if you and youre partner have sex before marriage you would know likes and dislikes and i think it would be better.personal choice. P.S SOMEONES FOLLOWING YOU HOT ANGEL HAS NOW BECOME CHOCOLATE LOVING ANGEL GOD GIVE ME STRENTGH.!!!!!!THEY NEED TO GET HELP AND FAST.GOOD LUCK

I liked it better before marriage because they go home after I'm finished. When your married they want to do other things like ***** about stuff.

mr. turk,

sex is sex. before & after marriage is immaterial - like u said leave ur traditions..

just make sure u have protection...........

well u can have sex b for marriage,,, but after u can play around but not in ur city,,,,don't tell any body>>>!!!!

In my opinion you shouldn't ask questions like this, my friend..They'll think that we're still yobaz...But of course it's your choice..

Don't understand me wrong(I don't want to say you yobaz, never - believe me)..but you know them..They haven't got traditions..They're very very very comfortable..

before, during and after

Before may be too soon but after is always too late.