How do you stop comparing other girls with your first love?

It's human nature to compare stuff with other stuff, or in this case, other girls with your first love. Your firstlove will always be special to you coz she was the first. But try not to compare people with one another, coz the human race is pretty diverse, and you'll find various different people with their own individual qualities. But before you go out again make sure you have actually gotten over your 1stlove. And, when you think you like another girl, ask her out coz you like who she is and not coz she's the same as your firstlove.

You will always remember your first love, no matter how much time passes...it will be your first forever! you can stop comparing when you get it into your mind that he/she is gone and there must have been a reason why. otherwise just try to get back to your first but then maybe that was so long ago that it seems like it was another life!

You don't, you never get over your first love because they will always be apart of you. I mean you felt everything with them first, that is who made you who you are today. BUt, it is yes very hard to move on without comparison. In do time the strong feelings will fade away, but not completely becasue there will always be a place in your heart for the one who sparked your fire. Good Luck!

sorry sweetie but I don't think you ever do. you just learn to love those who are just a good in a different way than she was. i am 48 years old and still love my first love even though i am now married for 20 years to a man i love very much

the only way to stop comparing them is to get over your first love. if you still compare it means you haven't moved on. ask yourself what about your first love made her so amazing that you keep comparing others to her. if you broke up with her idk what to tell you. but if she broke up with you then she shouldn't be worth your time to think about her.

You make sure you're actually interested in the person you're going out with. If you love her for who she is and not who she could of been then you won't think about your first love.

First loves are hard to forget, and they can influence your opinions of girls for a long time!

You're obviously not ready to start dating again. Give it some time and remember the bad times. There is a reason you broke up.

You wont stop comparing thats why its always wise to guard your heart and save yourself until marriage.

Get back to your first love and stop wasting your gf's time! !