why such an emphasis on virginity,when....?

Well aren't you a sexually frustrated lil' cupcake. I'll engage this, even though you're really not enquiring....you're just venting.

Your question has a built in answer. You seek virgins to sleep with because you like to feel superior. You need to feel wanted. You want to feel needed. The end results though, are like you said..."DRY!"

It's not them, it's you ladybug. Just accept the submissive role that's yours by nature. I prey on weak men, take them under my wings and under my covers to make them strong again. Leave the virgins to the virgins...pick an experienced buck, and hang on for the ride. You'll get your cookies, believe me.

The big emphasis on virginity, at least what I think it is, is not on the sexual aspect of it, but the emotional part. If you want a good roll in the hay, you choose someone who is experienced. If you want to emotionally connect with someone, you are their first (and hopefully they yours), and the two of you aren't just doing the naughty in the sack- you are making love and melding your bodies. Basically, you keep your virginity (and want them to keep theirs) so that when you come together, the moment is special- they say you never forget your first time. That doesn't mean it will be perfect- there's often some pain, some embarrassment, some laughter, and all that, but that's the wonder of it when you do it together.

As for people who just like virgins in general, I think the reason is because men assume that virgins will have more vaginal tightness (better sex for them), or they just love the thrill of initiating someone or the naughtiness of taking away a girl's virginity.

I think virginity works if both parties are virgins.

If one is not, it causes inequality and the sex is wretched.

because self respect is something that has become a forgotten issue ..... some things are to be cherished not haphazardly abused