Question for guys....need your opinion...?

well...I need more info to go on to really guess what's happening. Is he refraining from kissing you because he wants to be a nice/respectful guy? Or is he only semi-interested in you? Or is his libido just lower now that he's in his mid-30's? Its hard to guess. I doubt he would waste months talking to you if he wasn't interested. Maybe he's just shy, or maybe he just never learned how to be the agressor or how to make a move (it happens, since we men have so few teachers on that subject in this day and age). And he might feel weird just because he doesn't know how to make a move, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

I say go for it next time, some guys are actually shy around women they like, just try to read him next time he might have not read the situation right and you caught him off guard, so good luck in the future

hard to say. could be he doesn't want to come on to strong.. guys are often told that they can scare off women easily.. don't be afraid to ask him for a kiss.. maybe he has another reason that isn't obvious as to why he seems reluctant.

Stick your tounge in next time and lock him in so he can't get away. If he tries to beat you off with a stick, it ain't good for you two. If you get to beat off his stick, I think things will be just fine.

Just set back for awhile and see what happens. If is doesn't work out it wasn't to be there's more fish in the sea!!!!!!!!!!!!