Am i alowed to just go to my mothers home to see my brother?

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Hi Im Alice, Im 13 years old. Last week i went to the Palais de Justice In Paris, to court agaisnt my mother, i had my own lawyer too, she was really violent with me and its been a really big process and im so tierd, i ran away a month ago and been living from my sister(25) to dad, i now live temporarly with my auntie and her 4 kids, as im still a minor, i dont have the choice what parent to live with; my mother,brother and i moved to france july 17th against my will, and i want to move back with my dad;
My mother is Bi Polar so she is mentally ill, she was also a drug addict and alcoholic but is clean for 5 years but then she went on to medication which makes her hysterical, unfautunatly my brother still lives with her, i cant do anything about it, i asked her if he could come to my auntie for my birthday on sunday but she said no, so could i just go to her place and see him, i still have the key. But im scared she might do something, What can i do?

CyndiDrum · Accepted Answer

Somehow you need to let your brother know that you are thinking about him and that you really want to see him, BUT you should stay away from your mother until the court proceedings are over.

Marsha · Answer

Am sorry to hear you have been thru so much.     Right now, you should wait for the smoke to clear on alot of these issues before requesting thiings.

Am sure your brothers thoughts will be with you on your birthday.
But to use a key, that you should have returned since no longer living there, is not right  - especially in a home where your presence is not welcome at this time.

Thank goodness you had family members you could go to and live with until permanently settled.

For now, concentrate on your schoolwork and rebuilding your life.

Talk with the Lord about it - He will give you guidance.

Best wishes!

Stephanie W · Answer

Alice, my husband and son are both bipolar, on meds, and do pretty well for the most part. I can relate to all of the issues you have dealt with and even have daughter your age.

My advice to you, stay away from your mom for now. If you believe that your mom is a danger to your brother, you should report this to whatever local authorities can check on him for you. What is your dad's take on all of this? Is he in a position to help your brother? Is he the father of this boy? If not, can the father of your brother step in?

Good Luck and Best Wishes for You! Stay Safe.

Anonymous · Answer

Stay away until the court proceedings are finished. If you have to go ask your lawyer to accompany you.

A K · Answer

why would you want to live with a jerk like her you dont know if she is really clean she could just be lying. she sounds like someone who just cares about her self and is controlling i would not want to be with her if i were you. stay with your dad good thing he got  away from her.

real4u · Answer

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