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ok so i had this weird dream can u please help me see what it means?
it is me and my boyfriend plus two more friends. we are hanging out in a circle each of us a lil bit apart, then this girl(my bfs exgf) comes but its not her walkin shes like floating she floats around my two friends and then floats like a few more times around my bf and grabs him then just floats away. i dont feel jealousy but i feel anger and resentment. she is connected to all 4 of us because she is the ex best friend of the girl there, the other guy is my bfs brother and they were friends and then she was my friend and of course she is mostly connected to my bf because she is his ex gf. btw his relationship with this girl has affect our relationship because his mom does not like me and doesnt trust us at all.
when him and this girl were together his mom didnt like her because she looked slutty and then when she broke up with him his mom distrusted his GF, which is me
him and his ex dont talk and its not insecurities
im not insecure, they dont talk the only way she affects our relationship is because his mom doesnt like me or trust us because of their relationship
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i love you very much >beso< ok well she's not in my life anymore, and i dont even remember her, except on friday when i saw her, but that was odd, and i didn't care anything about her, i was on my way to go see the love of my life (YOU >beso<). and the only way she affects us is indirectly by affecting how my mom feels and distrusts my GF, you. which is why i told you we should get our families together and have them and us come closer together so that she will get to see you, and like you because you are such a wonderful person >beso<.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's simple really. This dream is about your feelings of insecurity in this relationship.
The floating ex is a symbol of that insecurity. The anger you feel in your dream is not against the "ex" but rather your insecurities because you feel you have no control over them. They float away out of reach, out of your control thereby showing you that your relationship will dissipate if you let your insecurities get the better of you.
I know mothers can be tough and dealing with exes is no fun either. If your guy stands up for you during these tough times, you'll be fine. I have a feeling though that he may not be standing up enough. Hence the insecurities that follow you - even in dreams.
Something is missing in your story though. I can understand the part about your BF's mother. Mothers can be tough. But why the ex? Is she somehow looming on the horizon? Does your BF keep in touch with her? Something is the catalyst for you feelings of insecurity where she is concerned. A good talk with your BF about that part could go a long way.
(I just saw where you said it's not about insecurities. I'm sorry to say but you are wrong - that is EXACTLY what this about whether you believe it or not. Denying it will not help. Dealing with it, will. Your choice. Good luck!)
Source(s): School of Life! - 1 decade ago
Hmm, even if this dream isn't prophetic (as so many aren't), it indicates feelings of resentment for this girl in your concious life. did his mom like her more? do u think his mom is pushing him back to her? if there have been no indications of him going back to her, than leave it alone and realize she has moved out of his life. but if something happened that makes you wonder, by all means, bring up your insecurities with him. he may be closer to this girl than you think.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
if his mom doesnt like u who cares wen r u gonna c ha holidays? deal with it get by and move on
