why is it when you first meet a man its all good and then they start to take you for granted and spoil things?

only dr phil knows

Hi, I feel at times women too are at fault. It’s better to analyze both sides of the coins at the very first so that later on a girl doesn’t have to run into problems and get betrayed by a man.

Life is not always a bed of roses, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good guys. I feel our attitude with guys from the very beginning will make a lot of difference. Its better to remain at a safe distance in order to avoid problems with them.

I hope the above has been of some help to you. Good Luck and God Bless!!!

I know what you mean.They can see that we are all into them and think that they got us tapping so they treat us like crap as if they are the last men standing!Dont they realize that there is only so much that we can take and when we say we leaving and had enough,we mean it!

That is how my ex was and because of his foolishness,I left his fugging butt and now he cant handle the fact that i've moved on to someone else that truly makes me happy.He actually done me a favour and made me realize that im worth so much more than he made me feel.Shame for him!Everytime I see him,i make sure i rub it in his face cause he needs to learn to appreciate what he has before he loses it!

Men like the idea of being themselves with a woman,when they feel comfortable. That includes drinking a beer,watching football,and an occasional belch,that is what men do.

You should feel honored if a man does that when he is with you,that means he feels comfortable with you ,and he is not putting on his "first date" face when he is around you.

Maybe you were enthralled with the "thrill of the chase",and if that is the case ,you will be going through many boyfriends with that attitude,unless there is someone you really like,and whatever he does will not matter.

It is not really them when you first meet. It is them on their best, courting, behaviour. If they start taking you for granted it is up to you to let them know that it is not acceptable (unless theyre going through difficult times) and then see if they can rise to the challenge. Maybe they feel that you are doing it too!

Let me apologise on behalf of all the slime bag men in this world. We are ungrateful and superficial, foolish and unworthy of good women. Which Is why i am single as is many of my fellow man. We are man, hear us complain. Sorry for our forgetfulness, sorry for our abuse, sorry we can't commit, sorry we can't communicate, sorry we are not more like women, kind, considerate and good at sharing feelings. i can't offer an explanation as to why we are like this, only m,y deepest sympathies. I am an idiot, I hate commitment, love sex and want only to be happy but with different women on a regular basis.

Sorry though because this has never happened to me and will never happen, i make use of them first before they even think of it...i believe the human being is naturally corrupt therefore when it comes to love, no man is good.Some are just in for ur toobi so dont give in cheaply.Work on your man.

i defence of all men like me, we are not all that way - and ive had expirience with women that do the same.

i suppose it could be the end of the honeymoon period but on the other hand i tend to think that two people affect the whole of the relationship - he might be unhappy with you leading you both to be unhappy. or visa versa or both

Fact of life - and it's not just in dating, but in almost all human relationships. All you can do is your part, and never take another human being for granted.

Because its human nature sadly - the first stage or 'The honeymoon stage' can't last forever. Its the introduction of normal everyday living that spoils it all xxx

because when you first meet them they do not show there true self & then after they think you like them enough to stay w/ them they show there true self . AH !!!!

Don't worry just get rid of the bad ones & in time the right one will come along .