Screwed either way?

That would be fantasy (not fantacy) and what to do is up to you. If you and Tim have established no formal relationship then you are free to date and have sex with whom you choose...

However, that doesn't mean it wouldn't upset him greatly if he found out you played with others...

Would you be okay if he got together with a couple of chicks and had sex (without you)? If you would not be okay with that, then why are you even considering doing it to him?

What's more important...a one-time fantasy sex fling, or a potential long-term relationship with a guy you really dig?

You have only been seeing Tim for a short time and this is a fantasy that you might never get to do again. If you and Tim don't work out you will always regret not going for the fantasy!

I looked at your past questions and I would guess that it is your old "f*u*c*k*" buddy who wants a threesome with you???? My guess is that you could do a one night with them letting them know it is a one time thing! You are young and Tim might or might not be the "one" for you! Enjoy your wild side while you are young and single!

Id say talk to Tim first. Find out exactly what his opinion is of your relationship. Is he ready to be exclusive or are you guys free to do as you please.

If he's ready to be exclusive as are you, then Id say tell the other guy no.

But if Tim says he'd rather you guys still just do your own thing, clue him in on your idea to see and potentially be with other people. At least this way he is aware of the situation, which could no longer qualify as cheating. You arent exclusive and he gave his consent.

A tough question, if you are with the new guy and it is a committed relationship, then I say no. There will always be time to pursue that fantasy some other time. If you feel the relationship with Tim will not progress to where you want it to be then the best advise is be be honest with him and tell him what you want to do.

More or less, yes. But the guy's body isn't at risk from the pregnancy; his opinion on that serious matter is superfluous, I think. A woman pregnant may consider or ignore his opinion, at whim--and I think her well within her rights in that matter. There is, however, another matter: whose responsibility is the child in that case where the man who would choose to terminate the pregnancy is faced with the rightly unilateral choice of the pregnant woman to carry to term? As the law in this country stands, any woman who becomes pregnant in any manner has a sure claim on the wallet of the semen donor. There are unsavory scenarios where the veriest slut has a claim on the wallet of whichever frat boy (of twenty possibles) is discovered to have quickened an egg. My feeling in this matter is that a woman who chooses to carry to term chooses also to bear full responsibility for the child-to-be, excusing the dissenting man of any legal responsibility. The privilege of choice--whether to carry to term or not--being granted to the woman must be balanced by corresponding privilege being granted to the man involved--whether or not to enter into the long term commitment to care for an unwanted child. This will not be a wildly popular notion in this forum, I suspect. Nevertheless, if you do the quadrature on the 'burst condom scenario,' you must see that the law in the United States supports women's privilege unfairly, stripping men of any rights in this situation.

your choice do you want to have a trusting relationship with tim?

or do you want to fill your fantancy?

what one will help you achieve your goals!

personal i would do your fanizcy just because it's fun!

but i did that in my fun time of my life i wouldn't dream of doing it with Frank the guy i want to spend my life with~!

well either way you go about it will hurt Tim.... be honest with him about your wants and if he refuses to listen to them because he isnt into that stuff... then you have to decide if you want to do this with you ex or keep this man.... there is no reason to lie and do it behind his back you are an adult.... Just say hey I am gonna do this because I have wanted for a long time... He may make your choice for you.. Good Luck

Don't do your fantasy. You could ruin what you have with Tim. Hey maybe down the road you could try to convince Tim to try your fantasy

well if you truly love Tim you better not jepordize that relationship by wanting your fantancy.

Break up with Tim so you can go have sex with 2 other men at the same time. If Tim isn't into sleazy sex, he won't be into you.