GUYS please HELP a SISTA OUT???

I'm a girl but anyway-its not uncommon-i think it is stupid for ppl to go out so young-no one does anything and its pointless-they just have a girlfriend or boyfriend and thats it they don't do anything. But ur not picky i mean u wouldn't wanna go out with someone u don't really like

OK, It’s not just you as a person but some dear but rather what you are. I mean you are a girl and we hetro men are preprogrammed to want a female. It’s our second head thinking for us. It’s our nature to want sex. However, at 14 you do not need to go there just as of yet. Yea, I know you want to experience what a woman can feel but the Responsibilities for a child if unprotected sex is involved are horrific theses days. Besides it is not cool to be an unwed mother because it puts the kid on the spot all his or her life. Not necessary at least at this time. Waite until you do not have to depend on a man to make a living for you or your kid when you have one. This way the kid will come up in a loving environment. Allot less stress for you and better growth for a healthy child. Best advice one can give you is not going there with a guy and let your self observe and learn what interested a guy. However, at 14 it’s only sex for the first time. Believe me this is true.

In your age group a guy is usually interested in one thing: SEX! So you want to be real careful unless you really want to get screwed (pun intended). If the guy is trying to act cool and romantic to you he is probably just trying to get into your pants. If you both share an interest and wants to spend time with you and just have fun like a good friend then that would probably be your best bet. You are young and it isn't unusual not to have a boyfriend at your age so don't hurry! And don't do it just to achieve some social status, that's just shallow.

Well, you SHOULD be picky. It IS normal(14 is not old at all hun, trust me) But most of all, DON'T worry about what the guys are interested in, worry about what you want. Be yourself and if a guy likes you, you'll know it's for you and not because of something they are interested in!!

It would be perfectly normal if you were 21 and still not a 1 yet, do not let this society or peer presures to force you into making a bad decision that could change your life for the worst , and its effects last a lifetime! Be patient you are very fine and normal!

at 14, you may be looking too hard. Guys this age just aren't very interested that young. Only the older guys tend to truly be interested but their intentions may be wrong. Don't feel bad that you haven't had a bf. It is perfectly fine to wait as long as it is needed. Don't just settle because you haven't found one either.

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you are pnly 14 and never had a boyfriend? thats perfectly normal! dont worry bout it. most of the time guys only wnat sex. they become friends with a girl, start to date a girl, cos there is an attraction there, which means they want to have sex with the girl. they may fall in love with her while dating, but they still want sex. sad but true. oh and theres nothing wrong with bein picky. wait for the guy you want.

Don't settle, be picky. If you haven't met the right guy just give it time and you will.

There is nothing wrong with you so there is no need to feel pressured into having a boyfriend just for the sake of having one.

alright, the fact that you're 14 and havn't had a boyfriend yet isn't a big deal. You can't even do anything unless you or your boyfriend has a car anyway, so its not a big deal. And just wait until you find the right guy for you. You'll know when you meet him.