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okay so theres this chick and Im really confused?!?

i have no problem with askin chicks out... unless... i know them as a friend..in class she keeps messin up my hair touching me on the arm..smiling at me and saying hi more than once during class..i dont know if i should take this as flirting or maybe just friendlyness..ive seen her do similar stuff to one other persson..so im just wondering is this just her way of being nice..if it isnt should i risk our confortable being as freinds so we can be closer..i would gladdy appreciate any help..im 16..so ive beeen out with plently of women its not really a confidence issue..

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  • Vae
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    maybe it's not confidence, but arrogance. i'd say you might not want to risk it. based on the evidence of her doing that to another guy, it may just be her personality, and you don't want to make your class time with her uncomfortable, if she rejects you. but if you do decide to ask her out, make sure not to call her a 'chick'.

  • 1 decade ago

    Boy I wish I could go back to school knowing what I know now. It sounds like she is trying to grab your attention. Give her heaps of attention back and notice things about her like her hair and stuff. If she takes the compliments then she likes you champ. I am sorry to dissagree but there is a confidence issue here. If you had enough confidence you would just ask her how she feels about you. You are only 16 you have plenty more of life experiences to live through yet :) You will hate me for saying that but will understand later on in life. Bottom line. Do what you feel is the right thing in life and you will live with no regrets.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just ask her man. It sounds like a confidence issue to me. When you two are alone somewhere talk about some bullshit and move on to the question very sudden and surprise her or bring it up slowly some how.

    The girls I always liked I always summon the balls at the right moment to ask such question and I suggest you do to.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hmm...there was a boy in school used to do that to me...pat me on the head and call me by my last name. I didnt think much of it then. Years later, I found out it was cuz he liked me.

    But then, he did that to other girls too. It's an immature thing and just a fun friendly gesture and shouldnt be taken too serious for your ages. Peace.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I say go for it ask her out. I mean what do you have to lose? if she says no you know you will find another girl. And if she says yes, you have a girlfriend!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think yuo need to just go for it. Dont worry about the friendship thing. if she likes you she'll go for it. if she doesnt like you all like that then she will let you know. just see what happens!

  • 1 decade ago

    it sounds like flirting to me. why don't you ask her and find out. just be honest with her.

  • 1 decade ago

    take the chance you'll never know until you do.You'll only wonder more and more go for it .

  • 1 decade ago

    SO, you have confidence, then take her out ASAP!

  • 1 decade ago

    hard to say

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