Am I moving on the right way by talking about what my girlfriend did sexually when we were apart???

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3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting serious. She was very upset, but I insisted and I didnt see her for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but she finaly took me back.We were happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work (at different times), she she had regular sex with both, until they both broke it off her. she was hurt by them using and dumping her as well as me rejecting her. Im jealous, but I know i hurt her too. we have discussed the details, though it is hard. this way i let her know it is ok to talk about how she was hurt,but also about how she enjoyed the sex, which she tells me she did - and she has told me new things i can try!Is bing open smart?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you're the one who broke it off for a while because you were being highly selfish. At least she was honest, she didnt' need to tell you all that info. get over and be glad she took you back. But I hope she didn't take you back just because those two guys ditched her. Maybe she is with out only because she can't stand to be a lone and you are a convience.

johnny · Answer

You asked for it. You broke up with her and now you don't like the results. Do you think she should have sat and waited for you. Why are you jealous? So you wonder if honesty is best? Your talking about her, but do you notice how many times I used the word YOU. Be responsible for your own actions. Life is though, yes, face the truth.

cowboydoc · Answer

This is all something you wanted, not her. She took full advantage of the situation and made the best of it Hooray! for her. Did you think she would sit around and mop for you, feel bad you kicked her out. And, in fact if she did better, you admit she felt something new that was better, your lucky she came back to you so, quit crying and cross your fingers that she wants you back.

deakjone · Answer

Well if you plan on staying together... don't take toooo long when you go to the grocery... she may just decide to find someone to have sex with in the meantime...

Anonymous · Answer

Quit talking about her and soon you will forget her.  The more you talk the more it stays in the front of your mind.  Let it die and the memory with it.

dumbassimmons · Answer

You have no business talking to her about what she did while you were apart. You should however tell her to get tested for STDs as she is at high risk.

53283663 · Answer

ouch. i bet that hurt you. she clearly wants better sex with the right guy---maybe you. try new things that could please her sexually. i think that's what she wants anyway...

shannon c · Answer

YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER YOU LET HER GO YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE UPSET.

Anonymous · Answer

your gf is a skank

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Am I moving on the right way by talking about what my girlfriend did sexually when we were apart???

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