What should I do if my ex keeps begging me to go back out?

In a way I feel stupid for answering this question but if it can save a life then my time was well spent. For starters sweetie "he left you" that means it is over. 2nd He hit you-when a man places his hands on you that should ultimately be a clear indication that he does not really love you but rather the power he has over you. His mother gave birth to him so if you are stupid then so is she. If he thinks you are fat then the two of you should go on a diet. He doesn't want to kill himself but rather he is sorry that he can't control anyone else but you so why not go crawling back. He will leave you alone if you cut off all contact. You need to wisen up and see the truth. History of a relationship only goes so far but how far will it go if they are reading it at your funeral tomorrow. LIfe is represented by the dash between when you are born and when you die....how did you spend your life?

Well, not that I care (you got a picture I can see? Those avatars take off like 20 pounds) but the "hit me" part is a clue that you need to familiarize yourself with your local family court and get what we like to call a TRO or Temporary Restraining Order. Once you get that on his *** you make sure *you* remind him of it every time he tries to contact you and stay away from him.

There are other fish in the sea.

My sister......let's evaluate the situation at hand:

You are hurt, you are physically wounded, you are betrayed

you were mentally abused

you were put down

he's ready to die

you move on and he's gonna try to isolate you

and now you say what should you do?

Let me tell you something, before you met that man, he was alive and well. Never let a man see you weak! I doubt very seriously that he's gonna kill your next guy....pray about it, pick up your life and move on. But next time just be sure that you know who you are dating before you start. And one thing...forgive your sister, she is blood and thats thicker than water and eventhough she betrayed you that doesn't mean that you should do it back. Forgive her and let it go, its better for the both of you.