ladies what would you think if your boyfriend emailed his ex out of the blue?

I'd automatically assume that he'd want some kind of escape from my relationship, but it really depends on what kind of e-mail he sent his ex.

If it is your ex, why do you want to contact her? You are in a relationship. Obviously current rel;ationship must not be that great if you are thinking about the EX. Should the EX really be the EX and the current lady your lady? Were you not ready to move on?

I would be upset as most ladies would be.

first of all how would you know he emailed his exgirlfriend except you have been spying on him behinde his back?email is a personal thing so how do you find out except hew has told you?and if he told you himself then it could just be a spur of the moment thing that he did becos of the bad blood between them to like mend fences

if you are very secure in your relationship and have a open and honest relationship i dont think you should begin to create issues or problems where there are none it could just be an innocent thing,and he mailed he not called her right?

relax gal!

I'm not a girl but it has happen to me my wife and I have been married for 19 years, On our honeymoon we went to Florida. I did'nt know her exboyfriend lived there she had to see him why I don't know or cared something about past relationships that i don't get. I told her what i called my past girl friend she got mad. So my advice tell him you going to call you ex. My wife calls him ever once in awhile It dosn't bother me now, He just wants to see if everthing is ok ,If he makes a habit of it thens theres something wrong From what i went throw don't be afraid it he loves you

That would be a big red flag in my world. I would keep a close eye on this before it got out of hand.

I;d be pretty ticked off really if my current boyfriend did that. The past should stay in the past.

He must be getting bored with the relationship with you.

It sucks but you are very likely on the way to splitsville.

Sorry to break it to you.

I COULD THINK IT IS A BAD THING@

HE still has feelings