How to go about this...?

DUMP HIM. If you don't do it, then you should be prepared to deal with this all of your life. Time's a ticking. I take it that you aren't that young anymore. Your ability to bag a man that is worth anything is diminishing by the minute. Tick-tock-tick-tock. Lose the ******* and get with someone you can trust. Your relationship with this current guy is already ruined. It can't come back to the way it was. Quit wasting precious time.

Also ask yourself what you did to cause him to do this. His actions are a reflection on your ability to keep a man happy. If he was happy at home, he would never leave. Think about that.

i do not like d fact dat he has been living wit u in ur own house.if u no longer trust these guy then u have two options;

1]breakup wit him and find a man who u can build ur trust around and wud be able to take u seriosly and wud also luv ur kids.

2]u and ur present partner shud have a real one onone talk and if the both of u are able to resolve things then good for both of u.gud luck in finding ur true luv.

yeah you said you love this guy, if truley you love him why dont you sit him down, let him know the disturbing things you 've found in him because he might not know what you fink his disturbing you about him. two years relationship is not a joke.

some guyz might care but woul'nt want their spouse to know about that and agin you said is a live in boyfriend, things like that can make him always feel he not so secured in ur house.

Babie.... let himknow how you feel about him.

go go go grl.... call his attention.

good luck.

guys are scandalous dogs!!!! i would wait till the kids were being babysat or something and then confront him about it. if you get the hint or suspicion that what you have found out is true, tell him that he has to move because you don't play this sh@#. he might beg you back then or let him go and he'll find out himself that the grass is not greener on the other side.

Sit him down and have a chat with him.. Tell him you're very serious about this since you don't know wether he cares or not.

Just talk to him, don't go behind his back and get revenge, that will just prolong the problems. If he is serious about you and your relationship, he'll act like a big boy and stop doing whatever it is you don't like.

you have missed the most important detail!! what did he do?? may be forgiveness is the way ahead and communication

good luck

Make it your new years resolution to make life better for some one less fortunate.

Talk to him,

If he is serious with he will be back on track

if he is not.... he is better to be dumped

You love the guy, but are you in love with him?