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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

ex boyrfriend on "high alert"?

k so i dated this kid a while back and we broke up... well he happens to hang out with all my best friends so i get to see him all the time, and he started bringing his new girlfriend over-- and me and her actually get along really well.... i am not trying to break them up i'm not talkin sh!t on him to her, i'm not trying to be scandolous in anyways (why would i? i can't stand him anymore) but he always acts weird when i'm around... even our other friends have noticed, it's like as soon as i come around he's all the sudden on high alert--- why do you think that is? we've been hanging out for like 6-7 months since we've broke up but all the sudden he's a freak? what's going on?

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  • kydd
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    maybe theirs somethin you know about him that she doesnt and hes worried you might say it to her

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like he is worried that your going to spill some of the "goods" about him with his current girlfriend. I have always been a little on edge when an ex and my current gf become freindly. He is probably worried that you guys are sharing "war" stories, and that you will both gang up on him. Just be yourself, and he will relax eventually.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Perhaps he's missing you and old feelings are coming back and he doesn't want his current fling to know. Either that or you're coming off too nice and he thinks you're up to something...lol

  • 1 decade ago

    Some situations are uncomfortable for some people. Obviously this one is for him. Just be nice and don't worry about it.

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  • hes probably worried your going to tell his current girlfriend stuff about him, true or not.

    That or he still has feelings for you and is realizing them now.

  • 1 decade ago

    Mybe he is just afraid you are gonna start haten on him to his new girl. So he is trying to be careful. Who knows. Did he do you wrong, when you were dating him? Maybe he feels bad.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You can not be that clue less. Put yourself into his shoes and turn the situation around. You seem to be enjoying this situation a little to much. God bless****

  • 1 decade ago

    he get's like that cause he thinks that u might tell his ex something!!! all guys do that or some of them aleast

  • 1 decade ago

    u still got it like that huh??

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he probably still loves you

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