why do people think that having sex while dating is okay when its not. Cant you wait till marriage? Good Hell?

I seriously agree with you because my boyfriend and I were going to wait but it somehow just happened but in a way I think it is kinda ok since we are getting married what do you think? He's never pressured me and I've never pressured him. We love each other for who we are.

Good for you. Good luck with that.

The thing is that there are people who have major sexual dysfunctions. These don't come up in relationships where people aren't having sex, and that can cause a lot of stress in the marriage. Also, I've noticed that people who wait until marriage tend to rush into marriage way before they're ready.

Besides, if you're not a Christian then sex before marriage is totally OK. Different strokes for different folks, man.

did no longer wait the 1st time previously marriage and would not wait back. it relatively is too significant of area of the dating to confirm when you're married which you at the instant are not nicely matched sexually. i understand this theory conflicts with multiple religious ideals and that i'm a believer yet i think i will ought to answer to the huge guy in this one. i think of he's lot extra merciful than we supply him credit for.

You must not like sex very much. Most healthy men want to have sex with women they find attractive. What's kind of sad is that you want to spread your defect to the rest of us who's libidos are working just fine. No woman or man should have sex if they don't want to, but if they do, people like you should keep your prudish ways to yourself.

If it's true love and one partner is denying sexual affection to the other to prove a point then there is something very sick and wrong going on.

Just because you don't believe in sex before marriage, doesn't mean it's wrong. People are allowed to have their own opinions, and just like you would like you opinion on abstinence to not be demonized, so to do people who believe in pre-Martial sex.

Because you wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first, if you are going to spend the rest of your life with someone you should know them inside and out, including sex, plus it is very intiment you shouldn't have to commit your life to someone in marriage before being able to be intiment like that with someone...

I reccomend a dildo or vibrator or some Viagra to help your libido.

it is none of your damn business what other people are doing. They could be madly in love with a stuffed animal and **** it every night...and guess what???

It still would be... NO ONE'S BUSINESS.

More power to you. I didnt wait until marriage, and i am happy with my choice. Do what makes you happy

Your avatar doesn't look happy.

Be happy, just remember, everyone is not alike or this would be a boring world.

You are entitled to your own opinion. Everyone has their own preferences and beliefs.