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SITUATION: My boyfriend's mother recently graduated from college with her bachelor's degree. She invited all 5 of her sons (and their significant others) to the graduation. I live with my boyfriend, his two older brothers, the oldest's wife, and the second oldest's girlfriend. I could not go, because I had to work. My boyfriend went. This was Thursday night, and he stayed at his mother's to catch a ride with them the next morning. I haven't seen him since. He hasn't come home.
PROBLEM A: Sunday, I had to take my grandmother to the airport. He'd known about this for at least a week, and had agreed to go. When I called him on Saturday to make sure he was coming home in time to go with me, he said he wasn't coming home until Sunday night and would be putting in a specific job application on Sunday (yesterday). He called his brother last night and said to tell me that he wouldn't be home. His mother had only come to town for groceries yesterday and wouldn't bring him here.
Said brother offered to come get him from the grocery store. Boyfriend declined. On Saturday night, my mother offered to get him. He declined by saying he didn't want to make his mom mad.
I'm really angry about this, because it's not the first time. When he goes to spend time with his mom, he disappears for a week, without even calling me (and yes, he has a cell phone). EVERY TIME.
I'm also angry because he broke his word to me to keep his mother happy. We're engaged, but he acts as though living with me is just a fun thing, not a serious matter. He couldn't even call me to tell me he wouldn't be home, and called his brother instead (who, by the way, mentioned that Boyfriend could just move out since I'm the way paying the rent anyway and told Boyfriend not to forget about what I'd think on the phone).
Am I right to be a little ticked about this? Should I call him and discuss it, or just not, and let him sweat out what I'm going to say when he gets home?
Sorry about the length!
But please do read it...I'm rather irked by this whole thing and could use the help.
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
When you are able to be face to face with him, tell him how you feel. And if you all are engaged he should be doing his part. I know sometimes things happen but he could have at least called to say he wasn't coming home on those days. It's called communication, and that might be something ya'll need to work on, or he needs to work on because I know some guys have trouble with that. I wish you the best of luck, and pray about it.
- Violet PearlLv 71 decade ago
He likes being with his mommy. Living with all those other people isn't as nice as living with mommy.
