Dyke in distress!?

Aww man....I think it could work, only if both of you are putting forth an effort...and age difference doesnt matter...believe me! But, if you think shes just trying to hurt you..just be friends like you are now......I have a ton of experience with dating women.....so if you ever need to talk to some one here i am! LOL

This is just me, but I'd never go out with someone that had the same ex as me, nor have I ever gone out with ex's of friends, etc. Sometimes there is just too much you could end up knowing through someone else that is skewed by someone else's opinion....

I don't think there's a problem with long distance relationships, if the distance is a temporary thing. If, however, it's on an ongoing basis, eventually one of you will get tired of the distance and you'll either have to decide who is going to move or let the relationship go...

Two hours isn't THAT long of a distance. I've been with my girl for 2 years (it'll be 3 in March) and we live 3 hours apart. We talk all the time, see each other on weekends and make a special effort to see each other whenever the opportunity presents itself (vacations, holidays, whatever). PLUS... we're 4 years apart in age!

When we met, I was 17 and she was 21. I kinda didn't tell her that, though... not at first. But later, when I did tell her the truth, she said that if she knew how old I was, she never would have started dating me... so now she's glad she didn't know!

We're currently in the process of moving in together. She lives in NY and I live in NJ where we're pretty close to legalizing same-sex civil unions (still fighting to make it same sex marriage but that's a depate for a different question). When we had to choose where we'd live together as a couple, she said she wanted to live in NJ since, if we decided to get married, it seems a lot more likely to be legal there.

So do they work? ABSOLUTELY! They might require some extra work and certainly more compromise.. but maybe that ultimately makes for a better relationship. :)

I wish you all the luck in the world!

My girlfriend and I have a 3 years age difference. I took a new job and moved 2 hours away from her. It's been a year now and we're still together. She is currently trying to find a job near me so we can live together again. We made it work, I think that if you both want it to work you will find a way. I am a little leery about the fact you both have the same ex though. That is kinda of odd.

Oh honey, let me tell you, it can work!! My girlfriend of a year and a half is 6 years older than me and we lived 5 hours from one another for a year! We met while she was teaching at a summer camp at my college. We developed a sexual relationship and said that dating would never work out. Eventually we decided that we did want to be together. It is not easy but you can make it happen. You just have to decide if she is worth it. If she is, then do it!!! Her ex caused all kinds of hell for us but we made it through and now we are so strong. If you guys really care for each other then you have to give it a chance. 2 hours isn't that far!

Gosh, that is a touchy one! I think nothing of the 2 yr. difference, but this stuff with the ex-...well it's a tough one. You could *try*, but I see some complications possible and other interactions which make the mind reel. Go for it if you are really ready to ride a wild ride. Bless you in your efforts. I hope you and all find happiness.

I would not be interested at all.

What are you two gonna b itch about: the past?

The ex you both had??

Gross.

Don't do it .

The biggest mistake you could make

Now you are interesting to her,to give info about her ex.

MIND YOU THIS IS A GAME SHE IS PLAYING

GET HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE.

NOTHING GOOD WILL COME OF THIS.

i DATED GUYS THAT LIVED THREE TIMES FURTHER :NEVER BEEN A PROBLEM.

PC TO PC CALLS.E--MAIL.WEEKENDS TOGETHER ETC..

DO YOURSELF A FAVOR:STOP BEFORE THE MISERY EVEN STARTS.

Greetings:Rob.xxx

It should work fine... 2 hours is not 2 states as long as you guys have cars; it's only an hour if you meet in the middle.

Dyke drama? I didn't know we got our own brand of drama lol. But anyways, long distance relationships don't work.

Did you say you had the same ex?? Oh, well it just shows you its a small world after all, hahah I say go for it. F* what the ex says. S**t ya'll both like each other, right?